Revive our Hearts

Over the past few days, Revive our Hearts has been publishing and broadcasting Nancy DeMoss Wolgemuth’s interview with Shona and I which we recorded last summer. You can listen or read the transcripts at the links below. It was in connection with Shona’s book Refresh: Embracing a Grace-paced Life in a World of Endless Demands.

1. How to Avoid Burnout

2. Developing Healthy Habits

3. Healthy Patterns of Work and Rest

You can also find some videos on Revive Our Hearts Facebook page. Here’s one of them.

This brings back happy memories of our time with you, Nancy. Thanks so much!


Rachael Denhollander’s Cry for Justice in the Church

I have many possible links for the usual “Check out” post but there’s only one you must read, so I’m not giving you a choice today. It’s a Christianity Today interview with Rachael Denhollander, the Christian woman who gave such an outstanding statement and testimony at the recent trial of Larry Nassar.

I’d encourage you to watch the whole video. Don’t just watch from where she “preached the Gospel and offered grace” to Nassar. That would be to miss the biggest lessons the church and society has to learn from this modern-day Deborah.

In this statement she mentioned how she “lost her church” in her fight for justice for sexual abuse victims. I was curious, though not surprised, about that and had been waiting for more information to emerge. That’s part of the important background covered in this Christianity Today interview. Here’s how Rachael’s husband Jacob tweeted a link to the interview:

I doubt this story will get as many blogs, tweets, links, and likes as Rachael’s video, but it should. It’s the most important interview Christianity Today has published in many years. It should be required reading for every church, every Seminary, every para-church ministry, and for every Christian conference that wants to show care for victims and avoid adding injustice to their pain. As she said:

I have found it very interesting, to be honest, that every single Christian publication or speaker that has mentioned my statement has only ever focused on the aspect of forgiveness. Very few, if any of them, have recognized what else came with that statement, which was a swift and intentional pursuit of God’s justice. Both of those are biblical concepts. Both of those represent Christ. We do not do well when we focus on only one of them.

It’s not enough to admire Rachael’s incredible offer of grace and walk away. It’s time to listen to all that she has to teach the church about justice and the damage of cover-ups. It’s time to listen to her warnings about how the evangelical church and Christians in general are among the worst at victim blaming and perpetrator sheltering. I’ve seen this time and time again in my twenty-plus years of ministry on both sides of the Atlantic. As she said:

The extent that one is willing to speak out against their own community is the bright line test for how much they care and how much they understand.

And here’s her final challenge:

Obedience costs. It means that you will have to speak out against your own community. It will cost to stand up for the oppressed, and it should. If we’re not speaking out when it costs, then it doesn’t matter to us enough.

What’s the biggest lesson church leaders must take from this? It’s that ignoring and covering up abuse is just as serious and sinful as the abuse. We heard and admired Rachael’s cry for justice at MSU and USA Gymnastics. But will we hear and act upon her cry for justice in the church? #Timesup Church.


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Blogs

The Wonderful, Amazing Blessings Of The Fear of the Lord
“This wonderful gift from God has brought joy and gladness into my life and has spared me from unimaginable pain and suffering. Yet I have never heard a message preached on it. I don’t hear Christians talking about it. It doesn’t seem to be in the forefront of many people’s minds. It may be, but I don’t hear much about it. What is this wonderful gift from God, this incredible blessing? It is the fear of the Lord.”

5 Great Things That Happen When Leaders Get Out of Their Offices
“It takes a love for the people and the work, coupled with a discipline to throw oneself into the work, for leaders to leave their offices. The pull to stay in your office can be strong. There are plenty of emails and plenty of meetings to keep leaders stuck in their offices. But wise leaders get out of their offices; here are five great things that happen when they do.”

When Revival Happens Elsewhere
“What about when you pray for revival and it comes…but to someone else? What are we to think of extraordinary measures of grace that God seems to pour out on others, while He seems pleased to withhold it from us? What am I to think of my neighbor’s revival?”

And now Generation Z
Some cultural insights into the upcoming generation.

When Someone You Admire Does Something Disgusting
“Almost every sector of culture is hit right now with revelations about long-admired people revealed to have secret, disgusting lives. Almost every one of you will face just such a revelation about someone you have admired, maybe even someone you thought was a godly Christian. By this, I do not mean seeing an admired Christian fall into sin (every Christian does). I mean the public unveiling that what you knew about the very basic character of this person was false: that he or she is a predator or a fraud. If that happens, how should you react?”

Kindle Books

For your non-Kindle book buying needs please consider using Reformation Heritage Books in the USA and Reformed Book Services in Canada. Good value prices and shipping.

Here are two brand new books that are heavily discounted.

Supernatural Power for Everyday People: Experiencing God’s Extraordinary Spirit in Your Ordinary Life by Jared C. Wilson $1.99.

The Prayer That Turns the World Upside Down: The Lord’s Prayer as a Manifesto for Revolution by  Albert Mohler $2.99.


Four Reasons to Remember Your Creator in Youth

Our enemy says, “Youth for pleasure, middle age for business, old age for religion.” The Bible says, “Youth, middle age, and old age for your Creator.”

But as it’s especially in our youth that we are most inclined (determined?) to forget our Creator, it’s especially in these years that we must work to remember our Creator (Ecc.12:1). Remember that he made you, that he provides for you, that he cares for you, that he watches you, that he controls you; and remember that he can save you too. That’s a lot to remember, but it’s much easier to start memorizing when we are young!

1. Energetic Years
However, that’s not the only reason why God commands us to remember our Creator in our young years. It’s also because these are our most energetic years.

Why wait until we are pegging out, until we are running down, until our gas is almost empty, before serving our Creator? The God who made us deserves our most active and healthy years: our bodies are strong and muscular (well kind of), our minds are sharp and clear, our senses are receptive and keen and sensitive, our enthusiasm is bright and bushy, our wills are steely and determined. Remember him in your energetic years.

2. Sensitive Years
Why do far more of us become Christians in our youth than in our middle or old age? It’s because youthful years are sensitive years. Without giving up our belief in “Total Depravity” we can say that it’s “easier” to believe and repent when we are younger. It’s never easy, but it’s easier. And it’s easier because as we get older our heart is hardened thicker, our conscience is seared number, our sins root deeper, our deadness becomes deader.

Use youthful sensitivity and receptivity to remember your Creator before the evil days of callous indifference set in.

3. Teachable Years
We learn more in our youth than in any other period of life. That’s true in all subjects, but especially true in religious instruction. All the Christians I’ve met who were converted to Christ late in life have expressed huge regrets about how little they know and how little they can now learn. I encourage them to value and use whatever time the Lord gives them, but they often feel they have to study twice as hard to learn half as well.

4. Dangerous Years
Young years are minefield years: hormones, peer pressure, alcohol, drugs, pornography, immorality, testosterone, etc. Few navigate these years without blowing up here and there. Dangers abound on every side – and on the inside. How many “first” temptations become “last” temptations! How much we need our Creator to keep us and carry us through this battlefield.

Remember to Remember
Let me then give you some helps to remember your Creator during these best of years (and “worst” of years):

  • Be persuaded that you have a Creator: Get well grounded in a literal understanding of Genesis 1-2 and shun all evolutionary influences.
  • Get to know your Creator: Study his Word using sermons, commentaries, and good books. But also study his World using microscopes and telescopes and any other instruments he gives.
  • Join with your Creator’s friends: Build friendships with other creatures that love to remember and respect their Creator.
  • Follow your Creator’s order: He set and gave the pattern of six days work followed by one day of rest for contemplation of His Works.
  • Ask for your Creator’s salvation: Even if your rejection of your Creator has broken you in pieces, he’s willing to re-create you in his image.

And while we’re on the subject of salvation, I don’t want older readers to be discouraged. Compared to the aeons of eternity, you are still in your “youth.” It’s not too late to remember Him, before these evil days come even nearer.


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Blogs

Young Teens and Social Media
“Our children are growing up in a world that thrives on technology, and we must be faithful in helping them engage with it. As with many things, technology can be a useful tool and a source of enjoyment, connection, and education. It can also become an addiction, idol, or tool for malice. The more we build strong character in our children, and the more we actively teach them to steward technology, the more likely they are to handle it with skill and wisdom.”

10 Things You Should Know about Suffering
Dave Furman speaks from experience.

Storytellers
“I recently finished For The Glory: The Untold and Inspiring Story of Eric Liddell, Hero of Chariots of Fire, by Duncan Hamilton.[1] It has become one of my all-time favorite biographies, and I have been sharing with others insights from that book that have influenced my thinking and are beginning to shape my own life.”

Jordan Peterson’s 12 Rules
I’ve been watching a lot of Jordan Peterson’s videos with a view to writing a review like this, but this is better than anything I could have done:

I want to reflect on what lessons can be learned from Peterson. Not just in the sense of ‘Why is he so popular?’ (popularity per se, as Trump has shown, is scarcely an indication of moral or intellectual virtue). But instead asking what can be learnt from both what he is saying and how he is saying it.

Loneliness Is Such An Honest Word
It’s this kind of cultural pain that Jordan Peterson is responding to. What an opportunity for the Christian community.

Eldership by Eric Alexander
These are 4 articles on Eldership by  Rev. Eric Alexander who was formerly Minister of St George’s Tron Church, Glasgow.

Kindle Books

Judge Not by Todd Friel $4.21.

The Deacon: Biblical Foundations for Today’s Ministry of Mercy by Cornelis Van Dam $4.99.

Pleasing God: Discovering the Meaning and Importance of Sanctification by R. C. Sproul $1.99


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Blogs

Is social media “ripping apart” society?
“Question: As Christian leaders, how do you evaluate social media? Is it good for America? Is it good for Christians? How have your social media practices changed since you first entered the social media world?”

Science Is Giving the Pro-Life Movement a Boost
“Activists like McGuire believe it makes perfect sense to be pro-science and pro-life. While she opposes abortion on moral grounds, she believes studies of fetal development, improved medical techniques, and other advances anchor the movement’s arguments in scientific fact. “The pro-life message has been, for the last 40-something years, that the fetus … is a life, and it is a human life worthy of all the rights the rest of us have,” she said. “That’s been more of an abstract concept until the last decade or so.” But, she added, “when you’re seeing a baby sucking its thumb at 18 weeks, smiling, clapping,” it becomes “harder to square the idea that that 20-week-old, that unborn baby or fetus, is discardable.”

Personality Tests—A Waste or a Resource?
Ed Stetzer discusses the pros and cons of personality tests.

Help! I Caught My Son Looking at Porn!
“Two days ago I caught our almost 15 year old son looking at inappropriate pictures on the Internet. We are purchasing software for our devices, etc. but I was wondering if you have any resources that you would recommend for the discipleship process that we now need to embark on to help my son work through and hopefully overcome this temptation. I appreciate any help/resources you could suggest.”

What Pastors Could Learn From Jordan Peterson
“While watching it, and reflecting upon Peterson’s work more generally (about which I’ve written in the past), I was struck by some of the lessons that preachers can learn from Peterson.”

“An Enforced Rest”
My Dad’s vacation did not turn out as planned.

Kindle Books

Table Grace: The role of hospitality in the Christian Life by Douglas Webster $2.99.

Four Views of the End Times by Dr. Timothy Paul Jones $3.03

A Little Book for New Theologians: Why and How to Study Theology by Kelly M. Kapic $2.99