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The ‘Art’ of Delegation – Part I | Ivy Sprague, eaHELP – Virtual Assistants
“Delegation may not always come naturally to you, and for some of us, we are constantly trying to perfect this area of leadership. Here are a few key points that I have realized over the years to help me perfect MY ‘Art of Delegation’…”

15 Of Antonin Scalia’s Best Lines | Nicole Fisher, The Federalist
“Supreme Court Justice Antonin Scalia wrote what has to be some of the best reads in Supreme Court history. His dissents in particular were filled with his strong, witty, and punny personality. Here are 15 of my personal favorites.”

Imbalanced Theology Leads to Imbalanced Counseling | Thinking Christianly…In a Therapeutic Culture
“In this post I will explore how theological imbalances affect our counseling. I will also offer a solution to the problem.”

Winter white | The Boston Globe
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Sex on the Silver Screen | Tim Challies, Challies.com
“If it would be intolerable for you to watch your wife acting out sexual deeds and sexual pleasure with another man, it should be equally intolerable for you to be entertained by watching anyone else simulate those deeds and that pleasure. To refuse to see such things is simply loving your neighbor as yourself, loving that actress as you love your wife.”

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4 Portraits of Gospel-Centered Black Church History: Lemuel Haynes

This is a guest post from my friend, Bob Kellemen, who is Vice President of Institutional Development and Chair of the Biblical Counseling Department at Crossroads Bible College. The post is extracted from his book, Beyond the Suffering: Embracing the Legacy of African American Soul Care. To learn more and to read a sample chapter visit Beyond the Suffering.


1. A Gospel-Centered Ministry: “The Black Puritan”

Lemuel Haynes offers a remarkable example of African American ministerial modeling. Born at West Hartford, Connecticut, in 1753, of a white mother and a black father, Haynes lived his entire eighty years in Congregationalist New England. He completed his indenture in time to serve in the Continental Army during the Revolutionary War.

Privately tutored, Haynes became the first African American to be ordained by any religious denomination. Upon ordination, Haynes then served white congregations for more than thirty years. Middlebury College awarded him the master’s degree in 1804, another first for an African American.

Among other accomplishments, he achieved notoriety for a sermon entitled Universal Salvation that defended orthodox Christianity against the threat of Universalism. For this work, he happily accepted the title “Black Puritan,” indicating his depth of gospel-centered, Reformation theology.

2. A Gospel-Centered Purpose: His Personal Epitaph

Haynes personal epitaph tells much about how he lived his life and where he placed his focus.

“Here lies the dust of a poor hell-deserving sinner, who ventured into eternity trusting wholly on the merits of Christ for salvation. In the full belief of the great doctrines he preached while on earth, he invites his children and all who read this, to trust their eternal interest on the same foundation” (Epitaph written for himself by Reverend Lemuel Haynes, the “Black Puritan”).

The Rev. Lemuel Haynes pointed not to himself, but to Christ. He understood that, “It’s all about Him!” His trust was solely in Christ and his focus was solely on the gospel of Christ’s grace.

3. A Gospel-Centered Example: Following Paul’s Model

At age sixty-five, Haynes left his Rutland, Vermont, parish due to political friction that essentially forced him to choose to resign. His farewell sermon of 1818 emphasized, among other topics, his devotion to the work of gospel ministry and to the people of his congregation. Alluding to the words of the Apostle Paul, Haynes notes that:

“He that provided the motto of our discourse could say on his farewell, I have coveted no man’s silver or gold, or apparel. Yea, ye yourselves know, that these hands have ministered unto my necessity.”

It was important to Haynes with his white parishioners that they recognized his Christ-like, gospel-focused diligence. Few could legitimately question his work ethic given that he had preached 5,500 sermons, officiated at over 400 funerals, and solemnized more than 100 marriages.

4. Gospel-Centered Motivation: For Christ Alone

It was also vital to Rev. Haynes that they understood his gospel-centered motivations.

“The flower of my life has been devoted to your service:—while I lament a thousand imperfections which have attended my ministry; yet I am not deceived, it has been my hearty desire to do something for the salvation of your souls.”

Haynes acknowledged and wanted his people to realize that the ultimate Judge of his motivations was Christ.

“I must give an account concerning the motives which influenced me to come among you, and how I have conducted during my thirty years residence in this place: the doctrines I have inculcated: whether I have designedly kept back any thing that might be profitable to you, or have, through fear of man, or any other criminal cause, shunned to declare the whole counsel of God. Also, as to the manner of my preaching, whether I have delivered my discourses in a cold, formal manner, and of my external deportment.”

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What gospel-centered, Christ-focused epitaph do you want written about your life? How are you living and ministering today to make that happen?


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A Giant Has Fallen – The Death of Antonin Scalia and the Future of Constitutional Government – Al Mohler
“Antonin Scalia is almost surely the most influential justice to sit on the Supreme Court in many decades. The loss of his influence, as well as his his crucial vote, is monumental.”

20 Qualities of Good Listeners | For The Church
“I’ve been blessed to know many people who were good listeners. What makes them good listeners? Some observations:”

The Advantages of Informal Mentoring by Alvin Reid | Ligonier Ministries Blog
“I believe in formal mentoring, and I regularly meet with one man or a few men to invest in them. At the very least, informal mentoring can be added to more formal approaches, and in my opinion is the superior mode, for it is the approach Jesus used.”

10 Reasons to Read Preaching and Preachers – Borrowed Light
“Though I could list many more, here are ten reasons why every pastor should read MLJ’s classic Preaching and Preachers.”

5 Takeaways for Preachers from Sinclair Ferguson’s The Whole Christ—Part 2 | David Prince
“We must not turn the gospel on its head in our preaching–The love of God for us is the reason for the death of Christ, and we must preach Christ to all men, without condition or exception.”

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Viewing Black Lives Matter—Part 2 | D. A. Horton, The Exchange
Check out begins today with four thought provoking articles on race-related issues. We start with the second part of D A Horton’s analysis of Black Lives Matter and whether Christians can support it.

I’m Happy to Talk with Dr. Phil | Thabiti Anyabwile, TGC
Here’s Thabiti’s response to Phil Johnson’s strong critique of Thabiti and his support for Black Lives Matter.

…according to Phil, I’m now ‘an agitator for the radical left #BlackLivesMatter movement.’ And, apparently, I’m no longing ‘arguing for a more biblical, gospel-centered approach to ministry.’ If I understand this correctly, I’m the one now suffering ‘mission drift,’ one swept so powerfully to the left that the Bible and gospel have lost its center in my ministry.

Phil’s reply here.

Love the Racist, Confront the Sin | Phillips Holmes, Desiring God
And then Philip Holmes outlines a way for congregations to tackle racism in their midst:

One way for minorities (and even those in the majority) to take action against racism in the church is to practice Matthew 18. If someone in your congregation is an unrepentant racist, Jesus commands us to ‘go and tell him his fault.’ The counsel is given in hopes that all involved will be reconciled with one another. If he doesn’t repent, Jesus instructs us to ‘take one or two others along with you.’ This ensures justice for all involved. If the accusation is shallow, the accused has third parties to come to his defense. If the accusation is founded, the accuser is protected, and the charges are sufficiently established.

Practical Advice for White Families Adopting Cross-Racially | Jarvis Williams, Reformed African American Network
Some practical advice for “white parents who have adopted, plan to adopt, or are raising black or brown babies.”

Raising Pure Kids in an Impure World | Jeanne Harrison, True Woman Blog
“It wasn’t that long ago that I was a teenager, wrestling with sexual purity. By His grace, I believe my parents were the most influential tool God used in helping me stay sexually pure. From their example, I want to share five principles with you. How do we raise pure children in an impure world?”

Stop Texting Men So Much | Nicole Russell, The Federalist
I found some of the stats here quite staggering:

Texting is now as ubiquitous to relationships as cell phones are to people. According to Attentiv, 32 percent of people say they’d rather communicate via text than over the phone, and 51 percent of teens would rather communicate digitally than in person (even with friends). Of course, teen girls–and likely women–text more than men. According to Pew, 79 percent of girls say they spend time texting their partners daily, compared with 66 percent of boys saying the same. This is hardly a surprise or an indictment: Women are hard-wired to be more verbal. We speak 20,000 words a day, 13,000 more than the average man.

5 Takeaways for Preachers from Sinclair Ferguson’s The Whole Christ—Part 1 | David Prince, Prince on Preaching
David Prince begins a series on what preachers can take away from Sinclair Ferguson’s new book.

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The Old Testament Told in Only 5 Minutes


A Stunning Symbol of Christ

If you could choose a symbol of your life from nature, something that would describe and define you, what would you choose? A mountain – to portray your reliability? A rose – to convey your beauty? A stallion – to impress with your strength? An orange tree – to remind of your fruitfulness? Jesus chose a grain of wheat. A tiny, insignificant, unnoticed, little-thought-upon seed. And a dying one at that.

“Most assuredly, I say to you, unless a grain of wheat falls into the ground and dies, it remains alone; but if it dies, it produces much grain” (John 12:24).

Jesus announced this stunning comparison when Gentiles were beginning to follow Him. He did it to remind Himself and His followers that, however many were showing interest in Him, He had to die if He was to produce more than just a few handfuls of followers.

The Grain of Wheat

Yet, despite initial appearances, a grain of wheat was such a fitting symbol of Christ’s person and work. Like it, Christ often looked small, feeble, worthless, useless, and powerless. But, like the grain, beyond the surface, “underneath” His humanity, was incredible power, value, worth, usefulness, and potential.

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This Is the Hardest Addiction to Break | Paul Strand, Charisma News
Not one of my usual sources but makes a powerful point:

“Sexual addiction is probably one of the hardest addictions to walk out of because it’s part of who you are,’ Dr. Doug Weiss, head of the American Association for Sex Addiction, explained.  ‘Drugs aren’t a part of who you are,’ he said. ‘Alcohol isn’t a part of who you are. [It's] something that you do. Sexuality is part of who you are.’

1-on-1 with Jerry Bridges | Don Pape, The Disciple Maker
“In preparation for the release of Jerry Bridges’ new book The Blessing of Humility, NavPress publisher Don Pape sat down with Jerry to talk about his spiritual story, his books, and some of his favorite things!”

How the Lord Restored Me from Intense Anxiety | Tabor Laughlin, Desiring God
Many practical helps to cure anxiety:

On top of starting to exercise daily, the Lord convicted me – through the kind and blunt intervention of my wife – to take appropriate rests. I stopped studying on weekends and weeknights. I only studied from seven to five, Monday through Friday. I started to have family days each Saturday where my family and I would start going out to explore to different places or parks in beautiful Louisville.

The Question That Reveals Everything You Believe About the Old Testament | Mark Ward, LogosTalk
This looks like an interesting two-parter. I’ll be intrigued to discover the most popular answer:

Don’t Play Travel Ball: Stay in the Rec League | Jim Hamilton, For His Renown
Jim hits it out the park:

Here are 10 reasons I think you should keep your kid in the rec league rather than quitting it for travel ball. These are presented in the order in which I suspect most dads think about them, not in the order of importance I would rank them (#6 would be #1, and #4 would be #2).

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Tulipomania: The Story of the World’s Most Coveted Flower & the Extraordinary Passions It Aroused by Mike Dash ($1.99). Not a book about New Calvinism ;) I thought some of my Dutch Reformed readers in Grand Rapids might be interested in this one.

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The Surprising Mentoring Ministry of Edwards: Learning the Art of Leadership Development (Lecture by Dr. Rhys Bezzant). This lecture was delivered last week at PRTS under the auspices of the Junius Institute. The lecture starts at 16.55.