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		<title>By: UKCleaners</title>
		<link>https://headhearthand.org/blog/2012/04/18/youngish-single-reformed/#comment-51253</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 23 Jul 2025 15:49:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The mop dances, the vacuum hums like it&#x27;s got jazz hands, and the dust? Gone like a magician’s rabbit! Ukraine Cleaners turns cleaning into performance art. If your home’s been playing hide-and-seek with cleanliness, our  <a href="https://ukrainecleaners.com/kenmore/" rel="nofollow">house cleaning services in Kenmore WA</a>  will bring it back into the spotlight—spotless!</p>
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		<title>By: Lee Smith</title>
		<link>https://headhearthand.org/blog/2012/04/18/youngish-single-reformed/#comment-51244</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lee Smith]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 29 May 2025 08:57:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Cleaning up after renovation requires special attention to detail. Cleaning companies that provide this service are faced with different types of contaminants: construction dust, glue residue, paint and other materials. I was interested in  &lt;a href=&quot;https://ukrainecleaners.com/Kenmore&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Kenmore house cleaning services&lt;/a&gt; . For effective work, specialists use powerful vacuum cleaners, steam cleaners and specialized detergents to return the room to perfect condition.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Cleaning up after renovation requires special attention to detail. Cleaning companies that provide this service are faced with different types of contaminants: construction dust, glue residue, paint and other materials. I was interested in  <a href="https://ukrainecleaners.com/Kenmore" rel="nofollow">Kenmore house cleaning services</a> . For effective work, specialists use powerful vacuum cleaners, steam cleaners and specialized detergents to return the room to perfect condition.</p>
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		<title>By: RHITCCDSCCS</title>
		<link>https://headhearthand.org/blog/2012/04/18/youngish-single-reformed/#comment-51078</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 10 Mar 2024 01:51:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[How about opening your Bible?]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>How about opening your Bible?</p>
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		<title>By: Hilary Smyth Walton</title>
		<link>https://headhearthand.org/blog/2012/04/18/youngish-single-reformed/#comment-47652</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Hilary Smyth Walton]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 18 Apr 2015 05:06:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I know this is an old post but there is a reformed church in Stuttgart and there you can find out about other reformed churches. Covenant Fellowship Church Stuttgart]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I know this is an old post but there is a reformed church in Stuttgart and there you can find out about other reformed churches. Covenant Fellowship Church Stuttgart</p>
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		<title>By: Trish</title>
		<link>https://headhearthand.org/blog/2012/04/18/youngish-single-reformed/#comment-47246</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Trish]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Jan 2015 19:46:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[stumbled upon your blog as I am single woman(getting close to 40 too), learning about the reformed faith/reformed theology and only have one person to really talk to about it (a male/brother in Christ). I have not yet joined a reformed church, still at my non-denomination church, and praying about that. I am looking for more women of the Reformed faith to help me learn more and found a group on facebook. But this was helpful as I do need to keep my focus on learning more about GOD and less on my singleness. Thank you.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>stumbled upon your blog as I am single woman(getting close to 40 too), learning about the reformed faith/reformed theology and only have one person to really talk to about it (a male/brother in Christ). I have not yet joined a reformed church, still at my non-denomination church, and praying about that. I am looking for more women of the Reformed faith to help me learn more and found a group on facebook. But this was helpful as I do need to keep my focus on learning more about GOD and less on my singleness. Thank you.</p>
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		<title>By: Allison Enos</title>
		<link>https://headhearthand.org/blog/2012/04/18/youngish-single-reformed/#comment-42521</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Allison Enos]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 10 Jan 2014 22:02:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[been a year and I just emailed David Murray to say hello.  I checked through the replies and saw your post.  Tis true women get &#039;compassion&#039; for discussing singleness while men get the brunt of disdain for not &#039;choosing a girl already&#039;.  huh...maybe an interesting topic to write on next.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>been a year and I just emailed David Murray to say hello.  I checked through the replies and saw your post.  Tis true women get &#8216;compassion&#8217; for discussing singleness while men get the brunt of disdain for not &#8216;choosing a girl already&#8217;.  huh&#8230;maybe an interesting topic to write on next.</p>
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		<title>By: Allison Enos</title>
		<link>https://headhearthand.org/blog/2012/04/18/youngish-single-reformed/#comment-42519</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Allison Enos]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 10 Jan 2014 21:53:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I was happy to see your response.  by chance I looked at the replies today and saw your posting.  It is not easy, is it?  It is hard when other gals aren&#039;t interested in discussing theology so that leads to talking with the men.  that is a constant struggle.  I am so glad I read what you wrote.  I just opened a facebook account if you want to send me a message there.  Just type Allison Enos.  I have a dog as my portrait picture so that will make it easier to track me down there.  

May you have a blessed day!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I was happy to see your response.  by chance I looked at the replies today and saw your posting.  It is not easy, is it?  It is hard when other gals aren&#8217;t interested in discussing theology so that leads to talking with the men.  that is a constant struggle.  I am so glad I read what you wrote.  I just opened a facebook account if you want to send me a message there.  Just type Allison Enos.  I have a dog as my portrait picture so that will make it easier to track me down there.  </p>
<p>May you have a blessed day!</p>
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		<title>By: Rebecca</title>
		<link>https://headhearthand.org/blog/2012/04/18/youngish-single-reformed/#comment-24529</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Rebecca]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 02 Jun 2013 10:28:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hello, my post comes a bit late, however, I can relate to much that&#039;s being said here. I am 38 now and only recently it dawned to me due to a remark of a colleague, comparing me to a nun, that I might indeed have received the gift of singleness from God. My problems with men are like a red thread in my biography, starting with an abusive, violent, drug addicted father, than at kindergarten I remember a scene when the little boys ran collectively away from me for some reason. Than as a non-christian teenager I had no desire at all to form a relation with the opposite sex, which lead to other people speculating that I might be a lesbian, which is not true. 

At age 20 I decided that I needed to get rid of my virginity since all the statistical data in the youth magazines pointed out that it was normal to be deflowered at age 16 - 18. So I thought, if i want to be &quot;normal&quot;, i need to speed things up. This lead to a very sinful period in my life for 4 years, with changing relationships and lots of heartache. 

13 years ago I became born again and started reading everything about marriage, homemaking and child-rearing. Reality is, the chances that I will meet a reformed guy are very low. I live in Germany and the reformed faith is hardly existing, with only very few churches who follow that path. So now I am trying to find contentedness in being single for the glory of God. 

I, too, am very interested in reformed theology and also read businness related things, so this might add to guys being not attracted to me. However, I won&#039;t dumb down to make myself more marriagable.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hello, my post comes a bit late, however, I can relate to much that&#8217;s being said here. I am 38 now and only recently it dawned to me due to a remark of a colleague, comparing me to a nun, that I might indeed have received the gift of singleness from God. My problems with men are like a red thread in my biography, starting with an abusive, violent, drug addicted father, than at kindergarten I remember a scene when the little boys ran collectively away from me for some reason. Than as a non-christian teenager I had no desire at all to form a relation with the opposite sex, which lead to other people speculating that I might be a lesbian, which is not true. </p>
<p>At age 20 I decided that I needed to get rid of my virginity since all the statistical data in the youth magazines pointed out that it was normal to be deflowered at age 16 &#8211; 18. So I thought, if i want to be &#8220;normal&#8221;, i need to speed things up. This lead to a very sinful period in my life for 4 years, with changing relationships and lots of heartache. </p>
<p>13 years ago I became born again and started reading everything about marriage, homemaking and child-rearing. Reality is, the chances that I will meet a reformed guy are very low. I live in Germany and the reformed faith is hardly existing, with only very few churches who follow that path. So now I am trying to find contentedness in being single for the glory of God. </p>
<p>I, too, am very interested in reformed theology and also read businness related things, so this might add to guys being not attracted to me. However, I won&#8217;t dumb down to make myself more marriagable.</p>
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		<title>By: RL Green</title>
		<link>https://headhearthand.org/blog/2012/04/18/youngish-single-reformed/#comment-10825</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[RL Green]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Nov 2012 06:51:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Allison,

What a great article, to encourage you. I&#039;m 40 single male and reformed (preached for 20 years the Armenian thing, just got called three years ago). It isn&#039;t any easier being a man, but to grow in and thirst in God. Stay the course. May God grant you the desires of your heart.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Allison,</p>
<p>What a great article, to encourage you. I&#8217;m 40 single male and reformed (preached for 20 years the Armenian thing, just got called three years ago). It isn&#8217;t any easier being a man, but to grow in and thirst in God. Stay the course. May God grant you the desires of your heart.</p>
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		<title>By: Latest Links &#124; blog of dan</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Latest Links &#124; blog of dan]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 20 Apr 2012 08:12:04 +0000</pubDate>
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