Why Hide Your Happiness?

“Worldly people pretend to the joy they have not; but godly people conceal the joy they have.” Matthew Henry

We just looked at why an unbeliever would pretend to be happy. Now we consider an even more ridiculous scenario – true believers hiding true joy! Why would anyone want to do that?

Associations

Some Christians hide happiness because it has strong associations with sinful pleasures. When people walk into a drug- or alcohol-fueled party they see lots of smiles and hear lots of laughter. Saturday Night Live, John Stewart, and other late night comedians have also given laughter a bad name, by linking it with bad language, innuendo, and humiliating mockery. Celebrities cannot risk being seen without their plastic smiles; and who wants to be like that?

Read the rest at HappyChristian.net.


Should We Fear Jesus More?

Sigmund Freud believed that people invent religion out of a fear of nature (earthquakes, volcanoes, disease, etc.) so that they can have a god who is powerful enough to help them with the scary things in nature. In other words, we create a supernature to take away the fear of nature.

But there’s a big problem with Freud’s reasoning, as R. C. Sproul exposes in Chapter 4 of The Holiness of God. Dr. Sproul highlights two miracles of Christ in which he exercised supernatural power over nature and the end result was more fear in His disciples!

Miracle 1: Calming of the storm. And they feared exceedingly, and said to one another, “Who can this be, that even the wind and the sea obey Him!” (Mark 4:41).

Miracle 2: Massive catch of fish. When Simon Peter saw it, he fell down at Jesus’ knees, saying, “Depart from me, for I am a sinful man, O Lord!” (Luke 5:8)

The disciples feared Jesus more after nature was conquered than before when they were defeated by nature.

A Good Question
Dr. Sproul asks, “Why would the disciples invent a God whose holiness was more terrifying than the forces of nature that provoked them to invent a god in the first place?”

But these miracles raise a further question: Should our reverence for Jesus Christ increase, the more we get to know Him?

I hear many answering “No, of course not…Jesus is the friend of sinners…He is bone of our bone and flesh of our flesh…He’s one of us, one with us, one like us…He is tender, kind, loving, etc…”

All that is true and must be held on to tenaciously. The humanity of Christ is the greatest comfort of my Christian life and a constant theme of my ministry.

But He’s not only like us. He’s also unlike us. And today this is often forgotten.

Look at the question the disciples asked after the sea was calmed: “What manner (or ‘kind’) of man is this?” Before, they thought He was just like them, and He was; but now they realize that He’s also unlike them. Dr. Sproul comments:

“He was beyond typecasting, sui generis – in a class by himself. The disciples had never met a man like this. He was one of a kind, a complete foreigner…Jesus was different. He possessed an awesome otherness. He was the supreme mysterious stranger. He made people uncomfortable.”

Lord, Increase Our Fear
Don’t we need more of this today, in our preaching, in our churches, and in our personal lives?

No, we must not in any way reduce our emphasis on the welcoming humanity of Christ; this is what draws us to Him with such deep love.

But we must also add a far greater emphasis on the awesome deity of Christ; this is what cautions us to approach Him with such deep reverence.

The more we know Him, the more we both love Him and revere Him, trust Him and tremble before Him.

If we don’t, at least from from time to time, know something of the fear of Christ that the disciples and Peter experienced on the Galilean lakes, we might want to question if we’ve invented a Christ of our own imagination or if we really are worshipping the God-man of the Bible.


Why Do People Pretend Happiness?

“Worldly people pretend to the joy they have not; but godly people conceal the joy they have.” Matthew Henry*

Why do some unbelievers seem to be incredibly happy, while some believers seem to be incredibly sad? Matthew Henry’s explanation is that the unbelievers publicize pretend joy, whereas believers privatize real joy.

But why would anyone in the world pretend to be happy?

Popularity

Partly because happy people are popular people. Most people are sensible enough to run a mile from Mr Misery. Social pressure forces people to put a good face on, to pack up their troubles in their old kit bag and smile, smile, smile.

Read the rest of this post at HappyChristian.net.


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Top 10 Books on Guidance

Yesterday I posted 30 questions to ask when seeking guidance from God. If you want to take this topic further, here are my top ten books on guidance. (For the complete list of Top 10 Books in categories click here)

1. Just Do Something: A Liberating Approach to Finding God’s Will by Kevin DeYoung

This is the easiest-to-read book on the list, ideal for young people or a young Christian. Covers all the bases in DeYoung’s usual punchy and engaging style.

2. Discovering God’s Will by Sinclair Ferguson

Another short book and a fairly easy read. I especially appreciated Ferguson’s seven simple yet searching questions in chapter 5. Both DeYoung’s and Ferguson’s books apply principles of guidance to work and marriage.

3. Step by Step: Divine Guidance for Ordinary Christians By James Petty

This is a more demanding read but is probably my favorite book on guidance. A couple of memorable graphics and tables to help work our God’s will, and an excellent end section on the seven steps of biblical decision-making. Will bring a lot of clarity and freedom to Christian consciences.

4. Decisions, Decisions: How (and How Not) to Make Them by Dave Swavely

This comes somewhere in between Ferguson’s book and Petty’s book in terms of length and readability. Neatly divided into “How Not To Make Decisions” and “How To Make Decisions.”

5. Can I Know God’s Will? by R. C. Sproul

This short treatment is in Dr. Sproul’s Crucial Questions series and is available for free on Kindle. Not so orderly as DeYoung and Ferguson’s similarly short books, but there are some beautiful gems of wisdom scattered throughout, and, again specific application to marriage and vocation.

6. Finding the Will of God by Bruce Waltke

Waltke compares common Christian methods for seeking guidance with pagan methods and finds them remarkably similar. He then calls Christians to pursue wisdom as a way of life rather than just for decisions in life and outlines God’s program of guidance in six steps. Good emphasis on the objective side of guidance without ruling out the subjective.

7. Decision Making and the Will of God by Garry Friesen

You might view this as an expanded version of Petty’s Step By Step. Not only longer but more scholarly too. A book to graduate to after reading DeYoung, Ferguson, and Petty.

8. God’s Will: Finding Guidance for Everyday Decisions by J. I. Packer

Simple, straightforward, heart-warming. Suggests improvements to the Friesen and Petty models.

If you’ve got these eight books you hardly need any more on guidance, but just to complete the Top 10 I’d add:

9. The Christian’s Guide to Guidance: How to Make Biblical Decisions in Everyday Life by Jay Adams

10. Guidance and the Voice of God by Phillip Jensen and Tony Payne

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