Connected Kingdom (24): Q&A



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This week Tim and I answer listeners’ questions about books, reading, Bible translations, family devotions, doubt and assurance, and the Holy Spirit in the Old Testament.


People trust eloquence more than honesty

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People trust eloquence more than honesty,” conclude Harvard scholars Michael Norton and Todd Rogers after researching how people react to speakers who “artfully” dodge questions put to them.

Rogers and Norton showed subjects different videos of a political debate. In the first, one of the candidates answered the question asked. In the second, he dodged it by answering a similar question. In the third, he dodged it by answering a completely different one. When the candidate answered a similar question, subjects failed to notice the switch. They also liked him better if he answered a similar question well than if he answered the actual one less eloquently.

The only caveat is that the question-dodger has to be good at it. Apparently the best current example of this is Hilary Clinton. Previous experts in the field include Ronald Reagan. Sarah Palin was also singled out for a unique form of question-dodging. She actually prefaced her answers by telling her hearers that she was going to answer a different question!

But rather than advocating training schools in question-dodging for public figures, Norton and Rogers are disturbed by their findings:

It’s troubling because we’d like to think honesty would be rewarded, but in fact, people who deftly sidestep questions are rewarded more than people who answer honestly but ineloquently. A leader could rationalize that it’s better to dodge well, because his intentions are good and he needs people to like and trust him. But I would say that if you’re trying to advance a public discourse, you have a responsibility to not dodge questions.

Apart from emphasizing personal responsibility, another suggested remedy is to post the question on the TV screen as the answer is given. Also, we can be on the lookout for transition devices that prime the listener to accept what comes next as relevant. The first 10 words of an answer are key to creating an artful dodge. You may hear phrases like “That’s a good question,” or “I’m glad you asked that.” Also, long transitions make it more difficult for hearers to link the question and answer.

Takeaway?
So, what’s the takeaway for pastors and parents? Well, first of all, we must recognize how sadly gullible and dangerously vulnerable fallen human nature is. We and those we pastor and parent are so easily deceived and led astray. How sad that people like and trust question-dodgers more than people who respond to questions truthfully but with less polish!

Second, we need to do more than tell the truth in the pulpit and in the home. We need the Spirit of Truth in addition. If people usually prefer polished dodges to unvarnished truth, we need to pray for the Holy Spirit to give discernment and to keep us and our congregations and families in the truth and away from error.

Third, we must learn to recognize the sin of using skillful dodges when speaking with people. This is such an easy habit to get into, especially when it is so apparently successful. May God help us to be honest rather than merely eloquent.

Fourth, in a world so full of falsehood and deceit, we surely come to love Jesus more. He is the one person in human history we can totally trust, one who not only always spoke the truth, but who could honestly say, “I am the Truth.”


Facebook and the call to the ministry

From what I can gather, the theme of The Social Network is that Mark Zuckerberg created Facebook because he was poor at making friends. The New York Times also recently suggested that Twitter founder Evan Williams started Twitter because he was quiet and slow to make decisions.

Rosabeth Moss Kanter of the Harvard Business Review therefore asks: Do we choose our vocation as compensation for personal weakness and inner misery? Are we driven by something we are bad at, at something we must overcome? Does our inner drive emanate from a personal shortcoming or a void in our lives?

Yale sociologist James Baron has presented evidence to show that some kinds of deprivation can increase motivation. That’s why some immigrants can often be harder workers than those who may have grown up in a prosperous country and have a sense of entitlement. Kanter concludes:

Restless dissatisfaction — that feeling that something isn’t quite right — propels entrepreneurship and innovation. Sometimes the motivation is straightforward and doesn’t require pop Freudian analysis. Get annoyed about a something that isn’t working, and invent a gizmo to fix it. See your mother suffer from cancer, and become a scientist seeking a cure. Get angry about the sorry state of urban education, and start an organization to tackle it. Personal stories lie behind many successful social or business ventures.

Does this also apply to the ministry? I think it can, sometimes positively and sometimes negatively. We see the positive side in the  Apostle Paul. He was driven by His sense of sin and his need, experience, and appreciation of grace. The most passionate preachers of the Gospel are often those who have experienced the transforming power of the Gospel in their lives most deeply.

Negatively, sometimes people can be drawn into ministry (and from what I’ve seen, into counseling in particular) because their own lives and characters are in such a mess. But this is dangerous motivation if it only results in trying to change others without seeking divine change in their own lives first. Changes in others’ lives should never replace and can never compensate for a lack of change in our own.


A good conscience is an enjoyable conscience

A good conscience is a great friend. It helps in prosperity and in adversity. It strengthens in life and comforts in death. And in Acts 24, Paul knew that he was facing death. In verse 15 he preaches the resurrection and final judgment of all. And it’s in that context that he declares his clear conscience. In other words, he has his eye on the last court he shall ever stand in, and he speaks of this as a “hope.” He looks forward to this. He can think on this with pleasure; all because he knows he has a clear conscience.

Help to the other side
What a joy to have such a conscience, a conscience that can look forward to the resurrection and final judgment with hope. In Pilgrim’s Progress, Mr Honest arranged for Good-conscience to meet him at the Jordan to help him over to “the other side.” We hope we will be able to do the same when we close our eyes for the last time. As one of the Puritans said: “There is no pillow so soft as a good conscience.” A good conscience can sleep in thunder.

Throughout his administration, Abraham Lincoln was a president under fire, especially during the scarring years of the Civil War. And though he knew he would make errors of office, he resolved never to compromise his integrity. So strong was this resolve that he once said, “I desire so to conduct the affairs of this administration that if at the end, when I come to lay down the reigns of power, I have lost every other friend on earth, I shall at least have one friend left, and that friend shall be down inside of me.”

Mr Recorder
And what a terrible experience to lack this! In The Holy War John Bunyan named conscience “Mr Recorder,” and portrayed his role and impact vividly: “Mr Recorder was a man well-read in the laws of his king and also a man of courage and faithfulness to speak truth at every occasion. He could make the whole town of Mansoul shake with his voice.” That’s why some criminals today will confess to crimes they are not accused of, because being punished by men can be better than being tormented by conscience.

To be living with an accusing conscience is misery enough, but to die with conscience witnessing against us, is even worse. And death does not silence it either. Jesus called it “the worm that never dies.” Hell turns up the volume of conscience and stirs it into relentless torment and trouble. Author George Crabbe wrote: “Oh, Conscience! Conscience! man’s most faithful friend, Him canst thou comfort, ease, relieve, defend; But if he will thy friendly checks forego, Thou art, oh! woe for me, his deadliest foe!”

Mr Reformation

As we commemorate the Reformation, we remind ourselves that the Reformation revolution was powered by Bible-bound human consciences. Again and again Luther was close to compromising with church authorities, but God’s inner voice strengthened him to stand with God. The testimony of a good conscience enabled him to stand firm, even if the whole church was against him: “My conscience is captive to the Word of God. I cannot and will not recant anything, for to go against conscience is neither right nor safe. Here I stand, I can do no other, so help me God.”

May God bless us with similar strong and clear consciences that will not only change our inner world, but through us will change the world we live in as well.

1. The world-transforming power of a good conscience
2. A good conscience is an educated conscience
3. A good conscience is an exercised conscience
4. A good conscience is an encouraging conscience

 

 


What is preaching? Your answers, please.

I preach. I teach preaching. I’ve written a small book on preaching (out next year). I love listening to preaching. So you’d think I could easily answer the question: “What is preaching?”

Yet, when a friend asked me this on Saturday, at the Mid-Michigan Reformed Conference, I found it difficult to immediately come up with a comprehensive one-sentence answer. The best I came up with was: “Preaching is a passionate explanation of the text of Scripture, with a Christ-centered focus, to transform hearts and lives for the glory of God.”

I’m sure there are better definitions around. Any suggestions?


A good conscience is an encouraging conscience

Paul was one of the most courageous men ever to live on this earth. His unshakable courage is clearly in view in Acts chapter 24. Unjustly charged with serious death-deserving crimes, prosecuted by one of the top attorneys of the Roman world, and being judged by the corrupt Roman governor Felix, he does not flinch. He speaks boldly as he denies the most serious charges against him and then goes on to accuse his accusers of grave injustice in their handling of his case.

Building a bridgehead
But his self-defense has a greater purpose than his own release. He defended and cleared himself of the most serious charges to form a bridgehead, from which he launched an all-out attempt to win Felix’s soul for the Lord. His good conscience gave him the courage to defend himself and to “attack” the conscience of Felix with the Gospel. His clear conscience in the face of multiple false accusations gave him confidence before God and, therefore, also men (Acts 24:16).

Bald Samsons
But guilty consciences turn people into cowards. A guilty conscience silences the Christian at home, at work, at college, and in the church. I’ve seen powerful preachers become bald Samsons in the pulpit because they compromised their consciences through the fear of man, majority votes, peer pressure, family considerations, or potential consequences.

Martin Luther King said: “Cowardice asks the question, ‘Is it safe?’ Expediency asks the question, ‘Is it politic?’ Vanity asks the question, ‘Is it popular?’ But, conscience asks the question, ‘Is it right?’ And there comes a time when one must take a position that is neither safe, nor politic, nor popular but one must take it because one’s conscience tells one that it is right.”

Before God then men
If we do not have confidence before God, we will not have it before men. The loud protesting inner voice will quieten or silence our public voice. But if we keep a clear conscience before God, we can courageously stand before men, not just to defend ourselves but also to evangelize and witness for Christ.

If you preached faithfully yesterday, let the re-assuring inner voice of conscience encourage you to press on, whatever the discouraging external voices of your critics may be saying. Maybe ask God to turn up the volume of the former in order to drown out the latter.

1. The world-transforming power of a good conscience
2. A good conscience is an educated conscience
3. A good conscience is an exercised conscience