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“People trust eloquence more than honesty,” conclude Harvard scholars Michael Norton and Todd Rogers after researching how people react to speakers who “artfully” dodge questions put to them.
Rogers and Norton showed subjects different videos of a political debate. In the first, one of the candidates answered the question asked. In the second, he dodged it by answering a similar question. In the third, he dodged it by answering a completely different one. When the candidate answered a similar question, subjects failed to notice the switch. They also liked him better if he answered a similar question well than if he answered the actual one less eloquently.
The only caveat is that the question-dodger has to be good at it. Apparently the best current example of this is Hilary Clinton. Previous experts in the field include Ronald Reagan. Sarah Palin was also singled out for a unique form of question-dodging. She actually prefaced her answers by telling her hearers that she was going to answer a different question!
But rather than advocating training schools in question-dodging for public figures, Norton and Rogers are disturbed by their findings:It’s troubling because we’d like to think honesty would be rewarded, but in fact, people who deftly sidestep questions are rewarded more than people who answer honestly but ineloquently. A leader could rationalize that it’s better to dodge well, because his intentions are good and he needs people to like and trust him. But I would say that if you’re trying to advance a public discourse, you have a responsibility to not dodge questions.
Apart from emphasizing personal responsibility, another suggested remedy is to post the question on the TV screen as the answer is given. Also, we can be on the lookout for transition devices that prime the listener to accept what comes next as relevant. The first 10 words of an answer are key to creating an artful dodge. You may hear phrases like “That’s a good question,” or “I’m glad you asked that.” Also, long transitions make it more difficult for hearers to link the question and answer.
Takeaway?
So, what’s the takeaway for pastors and parents? Well, first of all, we must recognize how sadly gullible and dangerously vulnerable fallen human nature is. We and those we pastor and parent are so easily deceived and led astray. How sad that people like and trust question-dodgers more than people who respond to questions truthfully but with less polish!
From what I can gather, the theme of The Social Network is that Mark Zuckerberg created Facebook because he was poor at making friends. The New York Times also recently suggested that Twitter founder Evan Williams started Twitter because he was quiet and slow to make decisions.
Rosabeth Moss Kanter of the Harvard Business Review therefore asks: Do we choose our vocation as compensation for personal weakness and inner misery? Are we driven by something we are bad at, at something we must overcome? Does our inner drive emanate from a personal shortcoming or a void in our lives? Yale sociologist James Baron has presented evidence to show that some kinds of deprivation can increase motivation. That’s why some immigrants can often be harder workers than those who may have grown up in a prosperous country and have a sense of entitlement. Kanter concludes:Restless dissatisfaction — that feeling that something isn’t quite right — propels entrepreneurship and innovation. Sometimes the motivation is straightforward and doesn’t require pop Freudian analysis. Get annoyed about a something that isn’t working, and invent a gizmo to fix it. See your mother suffer from cancer, and become a scientist seeking a cure. Get angry about the sorry state of urban education, and start an organization to tackle it. Personal stories lie behind many successful social or business ventures.
Does this also apply to the ministry? I think it can, sometimes positively and sometimes negatively. We see the positive side in the Apostle Paul. He was driven by His sense of sin and his need, experience, and appreciation of grace. The most passionate preachers of the Gospel are often those who have experienced the transforming power of the Gospel in their lives most deeply.
Negatively, sometimes people can be drawn into ministry (and from what I’ve seen, into counseling in particular) because their own lives and characters are in such a mess. But this is dangerous motivation if it only results in trying to change others without seeking divine change in their own lives first. Changes in others’ lives should never replace and can never compensate for a lack of change in our own.A good conscience is a great friend. It helps in prosperity and in adversity. It strengthens in life and comforts in death. And in Acts 24, Paul knew that he was facing death. In verse 15 he preaches the resurrection and final judgment of all. And it’s in that context that he declares his clear conscience. In other words, he has his eye on the last court he shall ever stand in, and he speaks of this as a “hope.” He looks forward to this. He can think on this with pleasure; all because he knows he has a clear conscience.
Help to the other side1. The world-transforming power of a good conscience
2. A good conscience is an educated conscience
3. A good conscience is an exercised conscience
4. A good conscience is an encouraging conscience
I preach. I teach preaching. I’ve written a small book on preaching (out next year). I love listening to preaching. So you’d think I could easily answer the question: “What is preaching?”
Yet, when a friend asked me this on Saturday, at the Mid-Michigan Reformed Conference, I found it difficult to immediately come up with a comprehensive one-sentence answer. The best I came up with was: “Preaching is a passionate explanation of the text of Scripture, with a Christ-centered focus, to transform hearts and lives for the glory of God.” I’m sure there are better definitions around. Any suggestions?Paul was one of the most courageous men ever to live on this earth. His unshakable courage is clearly in view in Acts chapter 24. Unjustly charged with serious death-deserving crimes, prosecuted by one of the top attorneys of the Roman world, and being judged by the corrupt Roman governor Felix, he does not flinch. He speaks boldly as he denies the most serious charges against him and then goes on to accuse his accusers of grave injustice in their handling of his case.
Building a bridgehead1. The world-transforming power of a good conscience
2. A good conscience is an educated conscience
3. A good conscience is an exercised conscience