Who should we hire? Ask the receptionist

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The New York Times recently interviewed Janna Eggers, the chief executive of Spreadshirt, a maker of personalized clothing. She is a bit of a hyper-achiever, and I would not recommend her sleeping habits! But, there was one precious nugget of wisdom she passed along when asked about how she hires staff.

I’m also going to see how they treat the receptionist. I always get feedback from them. I’ll want to know if someone comes in and if they weren’t polite, if they didn’t say, “Hello,” or ask them how they were. It’s really important to me.

Would the receptionist give you a good reference?


Christian Clothes Commercial

How would you write a Christian clothes commercial? That’s the way I decided to approach an address I was asked to give on “A Biblical View of Clothes.”

I started by setting out the five foundational principles that would guide my writing and production team. I wanted to avoid hair-splitting legalism, and yet give full weight to the Bible’s teaching.

  • God’s primary interest is in the heart (1 Sam. 16:7)
  • God is also interested in clothes (1 Tim. 2:9,10; 1 Pet. 3:3-4)
  • What we wear communicates a message (Gen. 3:7; Prov. 7:10)
  • God gives general principles to work out, rather than specifics
  • The principles apply to men and women!

I then set out a series of five commercials, each based on one biblical word.

1. Beauty

God notices and appreciates beauty (Gen. 1:31). He is not the author of ugly confusion (1 Cor. 14:33), but of beautiful order. God has provided beautiful materials, colors, textures, etc. There is no virtue in dowdy, untidy, unthoughtful appearance.

2. Modesty

God replaced Adam and Eve’s inadequate leaves with more substantial animal skins (Gen. 3:21). However, he did not design a burka! It was something in between nakedness and total cover. Modesty, or moderation in appearance, means we do not dress to call attention to ourselves or to certain parts of our body. This principle of moderation also extends to the number of clothes we buy and how much we spend on them.

3. Distinction

There should be distinction between the sexes – men should look like men and women like women (Gen. 1:27; Deut. 22:5). And there should be distinction between the Christian and the non-Christian (Rom. 12:1-2)

4. Respect

Wear clothes which show sensitivity to and respect for those you are with (Rom. 14:13). But also remember your body is the temple of the Holy Spirit ( 1 Cor. 3:17; 6:19). You live with God 24/7/365.

5. Example

Model these biblical principles for other believers, especially younger ones (1 Tim. 4:12). Lead by example.

Conclusion

Physical clothes are God’s provision for human sin (Gen. 3:7, 21). But God has also provided spiritual clothes for spiritual nakedness (Rom. 13:14). And that is where we must begin and end. Each time you dress/undress, ask yourself, “Have I clothed myself with Jesus Christ? Have I an adequate covering for my sin?” Buy no other clothes until you put on the free and spotless righteousness of Jesus Christ.


Faith and Finance

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Before I was converted to Christ by His almighty grace, I worked for a large Scottish Mutual Fund, latterly in a consulting role. That was over twenty years ago, and yet last Sunday night, I found myself giving out financial advice again. This time my motive was not to make myself and others rich, but rather to help mid-late teens build a biblical foundation for handling money to the glory of God. And this time I could speak with the authority of God’s Word rather than the best computer forecasts and estimates. Here’s the outline I left with the young men and women:

Key Principles

1. God owns everything  (Ps. 24:11; 1 Chron. 29:11)

2. God loans us what we have (1 Chron. 29:12; James 1:17)

3. God says money is important (Jesus spoke more about money than anything else)

4. God will call us to account for how we use our money  (Matt. 25:19)

 Key Words

1. Study (Prov. 24:3,4)

  • No one is born a George Soros.
  • If someone gave you $2M today, you would buy a book on money management.
  • The average American family will earn $2M in working life
  • Consult with others who have a proven record of financial stewardship (Prov. 15:22)                 

2. Budget (Prov. 24:3,4; Luke 14:28)

  • If you aim at nothing you’ll always hit it.
  • 3% who had written goals achieve more financially than the other 97% combined
  • Give every dollar of income a name and every dollar of expenditure a name

3. Save (Prov. 21:10; 22:3; Matt. 25: 14-30)

  • Short-term (emergencies)
  • Medium-term (major purchases)
  • Long-term (retirement, college tuition)

4. Give (Prov. 3:9,10; Luke 6:38; 1 Cor. 16:2)

  • Start now, even if it is a very small amount
  • Church then chosen charity

5. Insure (Prov. 22:3)

  • “Foresee the evil and hide (“cover”) yourself
  • Number one cause of bankruptcy is medical bills  (#2 is credit cards)

6. Wait (Heb. 13:5; 2 Cor. 6:10; 1 Tim. 6:6)

  • Be content with what God has given you and learn to patiently wait until you can buy with cash
  • 19% of bankruptcies are filed by college students (usually caused by credit card debt)
  • People spend 47% more when using credit cards than when using cash
  • 88% of “Ninety days interest-free credit offers” are turned into high interest loans
  • Avoid get-rich-quick schemes (Prov. 13:11)

 7. Unite (Eph. 5:22-31)

  • “One flesh” means “one set of finances”
  • “If you are not working together it’s not going to work” (Dave Ramsey).
  • “Separate checking accounts mean one of two things, either ignorance or problems” (Dave Ramsey).

8. Repay (Prov. 6:5; 22:7)

  • Repay loans as fast as you can “like a gazelle escaping a hunter”

9. Work (Eccl. 9:10; 1 Tim. 5:8)

  • Choose a vocation in an area/interest you are passionate about and God has gifted you in, rather than something that will make you rich.

10. Audit (2 Cor.5:10)

  • Review, review, review.
  • Seek accountability (husband, wife, parent, friend) before you are called to account.

Conclusion

1. Above all seek the unsearchable riches of Christ (Eph. 3:8)

2. Lay up treasure in heaven (Matt. 6:20)


The Pastor’s Worst Day?

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What’s the worst day of the week for pastors? Probably Monday. For the previous seven days we’ve poured ourselves into sermon preparation, pastoral visitation, counseling, evangelism, problem solving, prayer, etc. The Sunday climax (anti-climax?) has come and gone. We may have been discouraged by low attendances, limited or negative feedback, etc. Our mental, emotional, physical, and spiritual reserves are in the red. Yet we have to climb the mountain all over again. Monday “blues” can very quickly become Monday “blacks.”

However, without ignoring the real difficulties, let us also remember the joys of pastoral ministry. Here are seven I try to keep before me, especially on Monday mornings.

1. Preparing Joys

Every time I enter my study I think, “What a privilege!” Many are stuck on frustrating freeways or down dangerous mines; others are at monotonous conveyor belts or life-threatening fires; still others work in the midst of cursing and swearing. Yet, here am I looking forward to my Bible, good books, and quiet hours spent in the study of God and His grace. I never enter my study without turning to God and saying, “Thank you. I do not deserve this.”

2. Preaching Joys

Preaching can be frustrating and even frightening.  But it can also be so enjoyable and even exciting. How many times we see God work as we speak His Word. We see souls being sobered, saints being encouraged, the sad being uplifted, seekers becoming finders, and sinners becoming servants.  Sometimes we sense unique and (humanly) inexplicable help when expounding a difficult passage, or making a pointed application. “Where did that come from?” we sometimes wonder. It is the Lord.

3. Pastoring Joys

I love my study. Sometimes, I love it too much. Books are far less complicated than people. In my last congregation, I tried to visit every home or family once a year. That worked out about 3-4 visits a week. The sick, the elderly, and the bereaved added another 3-4 a week. Problems and counseling added maybe another 1-2 a week. So probably ten visits a week on average. That meant two afternoons and two evenings a week. If it was Florida, that would be easy. However, it was the Outer Hebrides: often raining, cold, wet and windy (and that was the summer). I have to admit, it sometimes took my wife to say, “Come on David, get out of the study and get visiting!” And though I sometimes went reluctantly, I almost always returned home encouraged and uplifted by the fellowship with God’s people, and from hearing what God was doing in their lives with His Word.

4. Provision Joys

No one enters pastoral ministry for money. In fact, there will be times when you are really tight financially, and you will wonder how you can get by. However, God will always supply your needs. He moves His people in remarkable ways to give exactly what you need. And even when you don’t “need” it, God’s people will often express their gratitude by loving gifts. How many times I came home from visiting in rural areas with fresh eggs, joints of lamb, wild salmon, etc. You can taste the love of God’s people in a special way in these special meals.

5. “Professional” Joys

No, “we are not professionals,” but we are in a profession, “a vocation based upon specialized education.” And what great colleagues we have in this vocation! Twenty years ago, I worked in the financial services industry. It was cut-throat competitive. Now it’s my joy to have godly pastors and missionaries as my colleagues and co-laborers. Since coming to the USA I’ve been privileged to attend The Gospel Coalition Conference and the Desiring God Conference for Pastors. What a contrast to the financial conferences I used to attend! Of course, there are differences and disagreements between us, but our shared love of Christ and His grace is more powerful than what divides us.

6. Personal Joys

One of the greatest joys I had as a Pastor was to hear my wife and children being prayed for at every weekly prayer meeting. And I believe that was a reflection of the private prayers of my congregation. Yes, pastors and their families are special targets for Satan, but they are also given a special place in the Church’s prayers.

Pastors have to work long hours. However, it is often forgotten how much time they have with their wives and children. To have coffee-breaks with your wife, and often three mealtimes a day with your small children, what other calling will allow you to enjoy that!

7. Perpetual Joys

Pastoral joys will last forever. Christ’s good and faithful servants will enter into the joy of their Lord (Matt. 25:21). “They that be wise, shall shine as the brightness of the firmament; and they that turn many to righteousness as the stars for ever and ever” (Dan. 12:3).

Although I now teach in a Seminary, I’m thankful for the many pastoral opportunities I still have, both in the Seminary and in the congregations I serve. So, though I still have Monday morning blues, I am still privileged with pastoral joys to strengthen me. Let’s remember the joys, focus on the joys, and value the joys.