My mood makes the weather

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One of the most difficult passages for me to preach has been Romans 6v1-11. I find it difficult to understand and even more difficult to explain. The difficulty is summed up in verse 11: “Reckon yourselves to be dead indeed to sin, but alive to God in Christ Jesus our Lord.” How do you explain that? Especially when it seems so contrary to our Christian experience.

Well, believe it or not, I think a journalist has just shed some light on this for me. Gretchen Rubin, bestselling author of The Happiness Project quotes David Dunning’s book, Self-Insight: Roadblocks and Detours on the Path to Knowing Thyself. Dunning said:

[People] can argue anything. If asked to argue that some assertion “A” is true, people can do that. If next asked to argue that the opposite of “A” is true, they can do that, too, often with the exact same ease and effectiveness…When testing a hypothesis, people tend to emphasize evidence that confirms the hypothesis over information that disconfirms it.

Rubin comments: I’ve been applying that observation as a happiness-project strategy, and it’s astonishingly effective.

When I catch myself thinking, “My husband isn’t very thoughtful,” and my mind starts kicking up examples of thoughtlessness, I retort, “My husband is very thoughtful” – and sure enough, I think of lots of examples of thoughtful behavior. When I think “My daughters squabble a lot,” I answer, “My daughters get along very well.” I can actually feel my opinion shift. It’s almost uncanny.

She concludes:

If I make positive statements, I’ll tend to convince myself and other people of a positive view of things. If I make negative statements, I’ll do just the opposite. For example, if I say, “Wow, that was such a great meeting,” people are prompted to think that the meeting went well. If I say, “Wow, that meeting was such a drag,” people are prompted to think along those lines.

 

As Goethe observed: “I have come to the frightening conclusion that I am the decisive element. It is my personal approach that creates the climate. It is my daily mood that makes the weather.”

So, I’ve decided that the more I regard myself as dead to sin, the more dead to sin I will be. And the more I think of myself as alive to Christ, the more alive to Christ I will be. The next time I am tempted to sin, I will say, “No! I can’t because I’m dead to sin, and alive to Christ!” Thus I will die to sin and live to Christ.

It’s worth a try, isn’t it?

PS. Please don’t turn this monopod into a centipede. Monopod = the way we think about ourselves will impact our behavior. Centipede = I also believe that everything’s relative!

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Preaching to all ages

“You’ve preached, but the response was mixed. The young were excited and enthused, but the old fell asleep. Or perhaps the old were rejuvenated, but the young were checking their texts and emails. And that seems to happen most Sundays. Why?

In some ways the “odds” are stacked against the preacher. Schools have separate classes for different age groups so that age-appropriate lessons can be taught in the most efficient manner. Preachers don’t have that luxury. We have to to preach one message to one audience ranging across the entire age-spectrum.

We might connect better if we better understood the Five ages of the brainThis New Scientist article contains some amazing facts:

  • During the prenatal period, up to a quarter of a million new cells form every minute
  • By the time we are born we have 100 billion brain cells
  • We start learning in the womb at around 22-24 weeks
  • By age 6, the brain is 95 per cent of its adult weight
  • The peak of your brain’s power is around age 22 and lasts for just 5 years
  • At age 27 our processing speed begins to slow down, but our “wisdom” keeps growing with our waistline
  • Good diet, exercise and sleep can slow down mental decline

However, the main takeaway for the preacher is how the article highlights the different way we are “wired” at these different stages of life:

  • Gestation: Setting the stage
  • Childhood: Soak it up
  • Adolescence: Wired and rewiring
  • Adulthood: The slippery slope
  • Old Age: Down but not out

Normally, preachers will connect best with their own age group, because they process information in similar ways. However, if we desire to connect with younger or older hearers, we may have to consciously adjust our preaching to maximize our usefulness. Some questions to get you started:

  • Is my preaching reaching all ages? Or is there an age group I am regularly switching off?
  • What preacher is successfully connecting with the young/middle-aged/old?  What can I learn from him?
  • Should I have some sermons that are tailored to a specific age group? Or can I, in one sermon, find ways to get the same truth to different age groups?
  • If a sermon was especially appreciated by one age group, what did I do differently?
  • Who is sufficient for these things?

Our sufficiency is of God (2 Cor. 3:5).


Steve Jobs on Preaching

Carmine Gallo analyzes Steve Jobs’ presentation techniques in this fascinating video:

Here are some of his points:

1. Make the theme clear and consistent
2. Provide the outline
3. Open and close each section with a clear transition
4. Demonstrate passion and enthusiasm
5. Make numbers and statistics meaningful
6. Analogies help connect the dots for your audience
7. Paint a simple picture that doesn’t overwhelm
8. Identify your memorable moment and build up to it

One question does niggle me: At what point does learning from accomplished public speakers pass into the “wisdom of words” or the “enticing words of man’s wisdom” which the Apostle was so anxious to avoid (1 Cor. 1:17; 2:1,4,13)?


Investing in sermon titles

How long will you spend on sermon preparation today? Of that time, how long will you spend on crafting your sermon title?

My good friend Steven Lee, President of Sermonaudio.com, says that the key to increasing sermon-downloads is an attractive sermon title. We may prefer people to click “download” because of the theological content in our sermons, but the reality today is that many will not listen to our wonderful theology unless we put some careful and creative thought into the title. What’s the point in spending 10 hours preparing a sermon and only 10 seconds on the title, if the title is perhaps the primary factor in attracting and engaging listeners – both in the virtual and in the real world?

Brian Clark’s article about blog headlines can apply equally to sermon titles for listeners in your “real” and in your “virtual” congregations:

Your headline is the first, and perhaps only, impression you make on a prospective reader. Without a headline or post title that turns a browser into a reader, the rest of your words may as well not even exist.

But a headline can do more than simply grab attention. A great headline can also communicate a full message to its intended audience, and it absolutely must lure the reader into your body text.

At its essence, a compelling headline must promise some kind of benefit or reward for the reader, in trade for the valuable time it takes to read more.

So how can we write better sermon titles? Clark lists Bob Bly’s eight time-tested headline categories. Here are some of them:

  • Direct Headlines go straight to the heart of the matter, without any attempt at cleverness. Bly gives the example of Pure Silk Blouses – 30 Percent Off as a headline that states the selling proposition directly.
  • An Indirect Headline takes a more subtle approach. It uses curiosity to raise a question in the reader’s mind, which the body copy answers.
  • The How to Headline is everywhere, online and off, for one reason only – it works like a charm. Bly says that “Many advertising writers claim if you begin with the words how to, you can’t write a bad headline.”
  • Question Headline must do more than simply ask a question, it must be a question that, according to Bly, the reader can empathize with or would like to see answered.
  • The Command Headline boldly tells the prospect what he needs to do, such as Exxon’s old Put a Tiger in Your Tank campaign. Bly indicates that the first word should be a strong verb demanding action, such as Subscribe to Copyblogger Today!
  • Another effective technique is called the Reason Why Headline. Your body text consists of a numbered list of product features or tips, which you then incorporate into the headline, such as Two Hundred Reasons Why Open Source Software Beats Microsoft.

Fellow-laborers in the Gospel, let’s maximize the usefulness of our prayerful labors in the Word by investing more time in our sermon titles.

 

 


Desire reduces the distance

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Why does heaven feel so far away? Why does Jesus seem so distant?
Recent research* by Emily Balcetis and David Dunning indicates that the desirability of an object influences its perceived distance. Thirsty students fed with pretzels perceived a water bottle to be nearer than those who had had their thirst quenched. Other students placed in front of a $100 bill they could win for themselves perceived it to be closer than those who were told that the bill belonged to the scientist conducting the test. A third set of students had their sense of humor graded and clipped to a stand in front of them. Those given positive feedback estimated the stand to be closer than those who could see their feedback was negative. Other similar experiments confirmed the finding that desire reduces the perception of distance.
Is this why heaven often seems so far away? We don’t desire it enough?
Is this why Jesus sometimes seems so distant? We don’t desire Him enough?
But if desire reduces the distance, “Lord Jesus, give the desire and reduce the distance.”

* Balcetis, E., & Dunning, D. (2009). Wishful Seeing: More Desired Objects Are Seen as Closer. Psychological Science.
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Blessed defeat

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51% of the Fortune 500 companies began in a recession (according to the Kaufmann Foundation). This partly explains why Clayton Christsensen, a Harvard business school professor, has claimed that the recession “would have an unmitigated positive impact on innovation…The breakthrough innovations come when the tension is greatest and the resources are most limited. That’s when people are actually a lot more open to rethinking the fundamental way they do business.” In other words, scarcity can be an opportunity, a boon rather than a bane.

That’s a truth in the spiritual realm as well, and provides the flip side to yesterday’s post about the risk of catastrophic victory. There is the possibility of a blessed “defeat” for the Church or the Christian. We would not have Psalm 51 without David’s spiritual recession. We would not have Paul’s letters to the New Testament churches without their divisions and disasters.

I’ve seen churches lose half their members and prayer meetings come alive. I’ve seen pastors leave churches “in the lurch” but “coasting” elders transformed into leaders. I’ve seen Christians lose their income and grow in grace. I’ve seen Christians lose loved ones in tragic circumstances and grow in love to God. I’ve seen a murderer sentenced to life imprisonment find true freedom in Christ. Spiritual recession, scarcity and loss provide us with opportunity for spiritual breakthroughs and for fundamental re-thinking of our spiritual lives. How can you turn your defeat into a victory, your bane into a boon, your recession into prosperity?

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