You make the camera disappear!

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What can pastors possibly learn from Larry King (apart from what to avoid)? John Baldoni argues here that King had a unique gift for getting people to talk about themselves by putting people at ease and asking the right questions.

Baldoni supports his argument with two illustrations from King’s relationship with Frank Sinatra. When King was a nobody he somehow managed to end up with Frank Sinatra on his show. But instead of following the usual interviewer’s strategy of trying to convince his audience that he and Sinatra were best buddies, his first question was, “Why are you here?”  Baldoni writes:

What King had done with Sinatra, as he has done with thousands of guests from the high and mighty to the people next door, is to shift focus from himself to the guest. This creates a sense of rapport that stimulates further conversation.

Many years later, when Larry King had become Larry King Live on CNN, Sinatra remarked to King during another interview, “You make the camera disappear.” “Bingo!” comments Baldoni, “A television conversation becomes just two people talking.”

I want to develop a similar ability as a pastor of souls. I want to make people feel so at ease that the “pastoral office” disappears and the conversation becomes just two sinners talking about Christ and the way of salvation. Perhaps the biggest compliment that could be paid after such a dialogue is, “I forgot you were a minister/pastor!”


101 Writing Tips

Here’s a great short video on how to avoid the five biggest writing (and preaching?) blunders. In summary:

1. Don’t bury the big news
Don’t build long case up to climax. Hit them with the big news first. Get the key points across early.

2. Don’t use unnatural language.
Using fancy and showy language diverts attention to the medium or the messenger rather than the message

3. Don’t overuse nouns
Use verbs much more. Not, “It is our suggestion…” but, “We suggest.”

4. Use shorter sentences
Cut down on “and” and aim for an average of 15 word sentences (also short paras)

5. Don’t use passive voice
Start with the “actor” then the “action,” not vice versa.

And if you really want to improve your writing (hence speaking) here is a great resource of 101 writing tips in a few pages. For this and three more free ebooks on writing visit Magneto.

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Is Moses in heaven? How?

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When a book is highly recommended by many respected preachers, bloggers, and authors, I am rarely disappointed. Hence my eagerness to read John Sailhamer’s widely-touted book, The Meaning of The Pentateuch. Imagine, then, my huge disappointment when I read in its opening pages the following sentences:

The Pentateuch is a lesson drawn from the lives of its two leading men, Abraham and Moses. The Pentateuch lays out two fundamentally dissimilar ways of “walking with God” (Deut. 29:1): one is to be like Moses under the Sinai law, and is called the “Sinai covenant”; the other, like that of Abraham (Gen.15:6), is by faith and apart from the law, and is called the “new covenant” (page 14).

I read the passage again and again, just to make sure I had not misunderstood. How can you write 600+ pages on the Pentateuch and go so wrong in such a fundamental way at the very outset? Sailhamer is saying that there were two ways to be saved in the Old Testament. Like Moses, you could be saved by obeying the law. Or, like Abraham, you could be saved by believing in the Gospel.

That leaves me with three possible conclusions. First, Moses is in hell, having tried and failed to be saved by keeping the law. Or, second, there are two groups of people in heaven who have been saved in totally opposite ways. There are those like Moses who were saved by the works of the law, and there are those like Abraham who were saved through faith in the Messiah. Hard to see how there can be much fellowship when some are praising themselves and others are praising Christ. The third possible conclusion is that Sailhamer is wrong.

I’m going to run with the third conclusion, as two groups of biblical texts spring quickly to mind. First, we have Christ’s infallible commentary on the “Meaning of the Pentateuch,” which is that it was all about Himself.

And beginning at Moses and all the prophets, he expounded unto them in all the scriptures the things concerning himself (Luke 24:20).

And he said unto them, These are the words which I spake unto you, while I was yet with you, that all things must be fulfilled, which were written in the law of Moses, and in the prophets, and in the psalms, concerning me (Luke 24:44).

If you believed Moses, you would believe me, for he wrote about me (John 5:46).

Jesus even presents the glorified Abraham as pointing sinners to Moses and the prophets for the way of salvation (Luke 16:29-31).

Second, we are told four times in Hebrews 11 (vs. 24, 27, 28, 29) that Moses walked by faith. In fact we are specifically told that he had saving faith in Christ (v.26).

Putting these two groups of texts together we must conclude not only that Moses wrote about Christ, but also that he believed in him for salvation. In other words, or in Christ’s words, or in Moses’ own words, the “Meaning of the Pentateuch” is that salvation is by faith in Christ – always has been and always will be. This is why Calvin entitled Book II of his Institutes: The Knowledge of God the Redeemer in Christ, first disclosed to the fathers under the Law, and then to us in the Gospel. In fact if you really want to find out the “Meaning of the Pentateuch” you could do no better than read Book II of the Institutes, especially chapters 7-11. That’s only 100 pages as opposed to Sailhamer’s 600 plus, and it is much more readable and preachable. 

I’m not denying that there are verses in Scripture (e.g Galatians 4:24-31) which seem to support Sailhamer’s view of Moses. However, our interpretation of such passages cannot fundamentally contradict the very basic truth of Old Testament salvation being by grace, through faith in the Messiah. Some of these difficult New Testament passages are referring to the ceremonial law (which Christ abolished by his death), and some describe the Old Covenant as misunderstood by the Jews (as a covenant of works) rather than as a further revelation of the covenant of grace (as God intended it to be understood). In other words, Paul was describing the situation as he found it, rather than as it should have been.

I’m going to force myself to keep reading, hopefully to the end of the book, as I’m sure that there is much to learn from Sailhamer’s extensive work. But it’s hard to see how Sailhamer can correct this fundamental error without contradicting himself or greatly confusing his readers.


What do people really think of me?

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Wouldn’t you like to know what people really thought of you? Well, trust the web to supply the answer. A new website failin.gs will allow others to tell you what they really think about you without revealing their identity. You can restrict answers to those who really know you by requiring them to answer a question about you before they submit their opinion anonymously. You can then respond to the comments with “I knew this about me,” “I had no idea,” or “I totally disagree.” Others can vote up or down the individual critiques.

What do you think? Would you sign up for this? And would this be helpful for a Pastor?

I won’t be signing up myself. Partly out of fear! But mainly because I have a loving and honest wife who keeps my feet on the ground and my eyes on the Lord. And surely every Pastor has cultivated such an honest and open relationship with at least one of his elders, that he is able to get trustworthy feedback from him/them. 

But above all, the Pastor must aim to please God not people. In fact Paul goes so far as to say that if he started pleasing people, from that moment he has stopped being a servant of Christ (Gal.1:10). Every Pastor is doing one or the other.


How to stop people idolizing you

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What do you do if people start idolizing you or your preaching? “I wouldn’t mind some of that!” you retort. Well, okay, maybe it won’t happen to many of us on a large scale. And most of us have the opposite problem. But, if even one person starts to “follow” you or your sermons excessively (and that can happen in the smallest of congregations), how should you respond. The Apostle Paul’s answer to preacher-idolatry was, “All things are yours” (1 Cor. 3:21).

I was first stunned by this verse 17 years ago when Don Carson lectured on 1 Corinthians 1-3 at the Free Church College in Edinburgh. It began a revolution in my worldview that continues to expand and develop to this day. All things are mine! It’s almost unbelievable, isn’t it? I think Paul knew that too. That’s why in the next verse he expands and underlines it. “Whether Paul or Cephas, or the world, or life, or death, or things present, or things to come; all are yours.” No wriggle room there is there. He covers everything.

But why does Paul introduce this huge truth here? He is primarily addressing the Corinthian problem of idolizing preachers. He begins, “Let no one glory in man, for all things are yours.” The Corinthians had turned godly servants – Paul, Cephas, Apollos – into ungodly masters. By giving exclusive attention and loyalty to one gifted and godly preacher, they were not only enslaving themselves to a man, they were also robbing themselves of the great riches God had distributed throughout His Church and His servants.

Imagine entering your newly-built home for the first time. The builder wants to show you all he has done for you. But you go straight to the kitchen, put your head under the sink, and say again and again, “I love this pipework.” “OK….But….eh…do you not want to see the rest of the house?” “Oh no, I just want to stay here and admire the way this washer fits.”

“All things are yours,” says Paul. In effect he’s saying, “Don’t cut yourself off from God’s riches by only listening to, reading, or following me. Honor me as your pastor, of course, but use all faithful preachers for your spiritual enrichment, because God has scattered his gifts and knowledge throughout the church. Don’t get stuck under the sink when God has given you a whole house to enjoy!”

But Paul doesn’t stop with just “all preachers are yours.” “All things” means “all things.” It includes the church and the world, life and death, present things and future things. But in what sense are all these things ours?

First, all things are for our profit – Every thing, every person, every place, every time, every event is for our benefit and promotes our ultimate interests.

Second, all things are for our pleasure. The Christian can enjoy the little that he owns in a way that the non-Christian millionaire cannot, because the Christian tastes mercy and grace in the smallest crumb and drop that God gives him. But the Christian can even enjoy things that others own in a way the owners themselves cannot! I can wander through the mall and admire the beauty and creativity of the clothes and gadgets even if I will never own them. I can see and enjoy the speed of fast cars, the elegance of sleek yachts, and the architecture of expensive houses in a way that those who own them cannot. I can see God’s wise, beautiful and powerful creativity behind every good thing.

Third, all things will be our possession. People like to say things belong to them. They put their names on buildings and parks and pieces of land. But, ultimately, the meek shall inherit the earth. The land registrar in the new heavens and earth will say, “All things are yours.” Now, all things are mine by promise. Then it shall be possession.

“All things are yours, and you are Christ’s, and Christ is God’s” (1 Cor. 3:22-23).

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