Book Recommendations

The Peacemaker by Ken Sande (also see The Young Peacemaker: Teaching Students to Respond to Conflict in God’s Way by Corlette Sande)

Resolving Everyday Conflict by Ken Sande.

Pursuing Peace: A Christian Guide to Handling Our Conflicts by Robert D. Jones

Communication and Conflict Resolution: A Biblical Perspective by Stuart Scott.

Help! I’m In a Conflict by Ernie Baker.

If You Bite & Devour One Another by Alexander Strauch

Redeeming Church Conflicts: Turning Crisis into Compassion and Care by Tara Klena Barthel and David V. Edling

Cross-Cultural Conflict: Building Relationships for Effective Ministry by Duane Elmer

A Loving Life: In a World of Broken Relationships by Paul E. Miller

Article Links

Puritan Help for 21st Century Conflict | God in the wasteland (Part 1, Part 2, Part 3)

If You Bite and Devour One Another: Biblical Principles for Handling Conflict

What Is a Wife’s Responsibility in Solving Conflict? :: Desiring God

How To Have A Confrontational Conversation — Ryan Huguley

Five Reasons to Confront Even If You Hate Confrontation | Jemar Tisby

Consider Yourself by Burk Parsons | Reformed Theology Articles at

5 Ways People Manage Conflict – Trevin Wax

7 Thoughts on Managing Conflict as a Leader | Ron Edmondson

Resolve Conflict ASAP | Counseling One Another

Peacemaking: A Gospel Necessity – The Gospel Coalition Blog

The Pastor as Peacemaker – Kevin DeYoung

Resolve Conflict ASAP

Twelve Key Reasons for Church Staff Conflict –

The Beginner’s Guide to Conflict Resolution

Conflict Is an Opportunity | TGC

A Wonderfully Helpful Piece of Advice in the Midst of Conflict – Borrowed Light

5 Prayers for When Conflict Strikes | TGC | The Gospel Coalition

7 Steps to Conflict Resolution | TGC | The Gospel Coalition

Conflict Is an Opportunity for Grace | Desiring God