God’s Gym

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INTRODUCTION

‘No pain, no gain.’ We’re all familiar with that well-known saying. Whether we’re trying to diet, pass an exam, save money, or get fit, ‘No pain, no gain.’ We’re not so familiar with the application of that principle in our spiritual lives. We can understand how pain in these other areas produce gain, but how does pain produce gain in our spiritual lives? If we don’t get a good answer for this, we will do everything we can to avoid suffering, resent it when it comes into our lives, and lose the potential for gain from pain. Let’s look at 2 Corinthians 4:16-18 for God’s answer to this question: How does pain produce gain in our spiritual lives?

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The answer involves three exercises in God’s gym.

BACKGROUND

Paul saw that the Corinthians were at risk of losing heart because of his present sufferings and the likelihood of their future sufferings (1, 16). He therefore gives six reasons not to lose heart in suffering:

First, because of the light-giving transformative power of the Gospel (1-6).

Second, we do not lose heart because our weakness is the platform for Christ’s power (7-12).

Third, we do not lose heart because God uses our witness in suffering to spread grace, thanksgiving and glory to God (13, 15).

Fourth, we do not lose heart because powerful resurrection is ahead for us (14).

Fifth, we do not lose heart because God is renewing us spiritually even while we are dying physically (16).

Sixth, we do not lose heart because God is preparing incomparable eternal compensation for us (17).

These reasons enable us not only not to lose heart in suffering but also to gain heart in suffering.

What’s the first exercise?

1. GOD EXERCISES US FOR PRESENT RENEWAL (16)

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Outward Pain

Though our outer self is wasting away… (16)

Our ‘outer self’ is primarily our body, property, and status. It’s everything that this world sees and measures when it’s calculating someone’s success or value.

God exercised Paul with age, pain, conflict, disappointment, service, and persecution, resulting in him losing his health, wealth, and status. God’s providence had weakened him physically, socially, and financially. Anyone looking at pictures of Paul would say, “Wow! He’s aged badly.”

Inner Gain

…our inner self is being renewed day by day (16)

Our ‘inner self’ is our soul, our heart, our spirit. It’s everything that this world cannot see when it comes to assessing someone’s success or value. It’s our unseen relationship to God and includes our faith, repentance, hope, love, worship, patience, submission, and so on.

The same events and experiences that weakened Paul outwardly, strengthened him inwardly. It’s the same divine exercise machine that’s having such different effects. His physical, financial, and social muscles were withering and wasting, but his spiritual muscles were being honed, sculpted, and strengthened with every rep. It’s in the present continuous tense, meaning this is a constant daily process.

CHANGING OUR STORIES WITH GOD’S STORY

Pain is gain. It’s not just no pain, no gain, it’s that every pain causes gain, every pain produces gain. We may not like to think of our wrinkles, our gray hair, our scars, our arthritis, our diabetes, our eczema, our deafness, our missing teeth, our Parkinson’s, our MS, our weakness. We try to deny or minimize, but if we do, we are missing out on this encouraging exercise of contrasting the outward loss with the inward gain. We may not see it ourselves, but the Bible tells us it’s there, it’s happening, and therefore let’s be encouraged by this fact. This is a very different way to view old age. “Yes! I’m getting weaker and sorer. That means I’m getting bigger and stronger!”

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That’s the present. What about the future?

2. GOD EXERCISES US FOR FUTURE GLORY (17)

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Light and short pain

For this light momentary affliction… (17)

Paul’s pains and sufferings were far from light or short; they were weighty and lengthy (2 Cor. 11:24-31). How then can he call them light and short. They did not feel like that at the time (2 Cor. 1:8). There were moments and periods when Paul felt he could not go on; he could not lift another weight for another second. How can he now say they were light and short? They are light and short only when compared to the heavy and long reward that results from them.

Long and heavy glory

…is preparing for us an eternal weight of glory beyond all comparison (17).

God leverages these sufferings so that every pain and every day is multiplied in the opposite direction. Short pains produce eternal gains, light pains produce glorious gains. It’s so unequal a comparison, that it’s not even worth calling it a comparison. It’s like saying “My ingrown toenail resulted in a purple heart.” Or, “My running up the stairs resulted in me winning the New York marathon.”

Notice especially that it’s not ‘despite the sufferings we get great glory.’ It’s ‘because of the sufferings.’ Christ’s sufferings get us into glory, but our sufferings are connected to our experience of glory.

CHANGING OUR STORIES WITH GOD’S STORY

Pain will be gain. Just as the more we stretch and push our muscles, the more we grow and strengthen our muscles, so every sanctified pain produces heavenly gain. The heavier the weight of suffering the heavier the weight of glory. Not one moment of pain is wasted. Every moment of pain here is producing eternal gain in heaven for the Christian.

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How can that be?

3. GOD EXERCISES US WITH NEW GLASSES (18)

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We stop seeing the seen

…as we look not to the things that are seen…for the things that are seen are transient (18).

The Corinthians, like us, tended to just see the seen things. They viewed the visible world as if it was the only world and the lasting world. Paul said that he deliberately looks away from the seen and the visible world. He chooses to stop looking at it. How do you do that? There’s only one way, and that’s to look at something else.

We start seeing the unseen

…we look….to the things that are unseen. For…the things that are unseen are eternal (18).

If you ever get bi-focal glasses, you know it takes time for your eyes to adjust to them. It takes a bit of effort. Paul is encouraging us to do some visual exercises here, to take God’s glasses and train ourselves to look at the world differently, in fact to look at this world less and the world to come much more.

CHANGING OUR STORIES WITH GOD’S STORY

Pain sees gain. We will never see gain without pain. Without pain we cannot see gain. Pain is what helps us see this world differently and the world to come differently. Paul calls us to feast our eyes on the forever world not the fallen world. If we look better, we will see better.

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SUMMARY

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PRAYER

My Trainer, help me to believe that my pains result in incomparable gains.

DISCUSSION QUESTIONS

1. What pain has God brought into your life? How has that affected your spiritual life?

2. Where have you seen gain producing pain in your life or others?

3. What role does faith have in seeing inner renewal?

4. “Christ’s sufferings get us into glory, but our sufferings are connected to our experience of glory.” How would you explain this to a suffering Christian?

5. How has pain improved your sight?

6. What can you do to improve your sight?

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Christ Came Before Christmas (2)

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INTRODUCTION

How much do you want to be holy? How much do you want to be sanctified? How much do you want to be free of sin and full of godliness? Grade your desire with a number from 1 to 10.

Now do the same with the question, How much do you want to be saved? From a range of 1 to 10, what would your number be?

If we’re honest, most of us have a higher salvation number than a sanctification number. We want to be saved more than we want to be holy. How do we increase our desire for holiness?

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Last week, we tried to increase our desire for salvation by showing how much the Son of God wanted to save people even before he came to earth as a man. This week we want to increase our desire for holiness by seeing how much the Son of God wanted to sanctify people even before he came to this earth as a man. In Genesis 32:22-32, we’ll encounter the Son of God in human form proving how much he wants us to be holy.

BACKGROUND

Jacob had to flee his brother for exile after defrauding him. As he left the Promised Land, the Angel of the Lord met him and gave him promises and assurances (Genesis 28).

After spending 20 years in foreign exile, the Angel of the Lord visited him again and told him to return to his homeland and family (Gen. 31:13).

As he entered the Promised Land, the Angel of the Lord together with other angels met him to give him further encouragement (Gen. 32:1).

After hearing that Esau was coming to meet him with 400 men, Jacob sent a large gift to Esau to try to appease him (32:3-21), shepherded his family and servants across the Jabbok ford (32:22-23), and then lies down alone to ponder his likely end the next day. It’s in this desperate context that the Angel of the Lord appears once again to Jacob (32:24-32).

What does the Angel of the Lord teach Jacob about the blessing of holiness?

1.WE LOSE BY WINNING (22-24)

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The Arena

Jacob lay down on the ground to spend an anxious night in the dark and desolate desert, perhaps his last night on earth. This is the scene for a life-or-death wrestling match that ends up with both competitors winning. Let’s take our seats ring side as the wrestlers are introduced.

The Wrestlers

Jacob had certainly lived up to his name, which meant ‘heel-grabber’ or ‘supplanter.’ From the day of his birth he had tried to overtake his brother Esau and obtain physical and spiritual blessings by foul means. Having succeeded at Esau’s expense, now Esau was heading his way with a 400-strong army.

We’re told solemnly and ominously that Jacob was left alone (24). He had sent his family and servants on ahead and was now alone with his own thoughts, contemplating the awful day that lay ahead of him–probably the day of his death.

In that fear-filled moment, a shadowy male figure appeared out of the night, advanced towards him, grabbed him, and a life-or-death struggle ensued. Who is this man?

This ‘man’ is called God twice in this chapter (32: 28, 30). When Hosea reflected on this incident, calls the man an ‘angel’, ‘the LORD,’ and ‘the God of hosts’ (Hosea 12:4-5). We therefore conclude that this is the same ‘Messenger of the LORD’ who appeared to Hagar in Genesis 16, a pre-Christmas coming of the Son of God in human form.

The Contest

The Hebrew verb for ‘wrestle’ here, indicates that the contest was initiated by the man not Jacob. The man was the instigator, the aggressor, while Jacob was the defender, fighting for his life. The struggle was momentous and long. As we will see, the ‘man’ could have ended this much quicker, whenever he chose, but (like a Dad with a small boy) decided to accommodate himself to Jacob for the purposes of the matchup.

CHANGING OUR STORIES WITH GOD’S STORY 

Jacob had won each human contest up until this point. He had ‘beaten’ his father Isaac, his brother Esau, and his uncle Laban. He was a winner, someone who won blessings by fair means or foul, usually foul. But his winning ways had brought him to a dead end, an end that looked like death. Many win in this world but lose their lives, both here and hereafter (Mark 8:36). We can lose by winning.

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How do I win from God’s perspective?

2. WE WIN BY LOSING (25-32)

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The Knockout

When the man saw that he did not prevail against Jacob, he touched his hip socket, and Jacob’s hip was put out of joint as he wrestled with him (25).

Eventually, the ‘man’ realized that Jacob would not give up fighting, he would not surrender, he would not ‘tap out.’ The ‘man,’ therefore, ended the contest with a simple supernatural touch on Jacob’s hip, reducing Jacob to helplessness. After hours of grappling and gripping, he easily dislocated Jacob’s hip, ending the contest and ending Jacob’s winning run.

The Winners

The contest was over and the ‘man’ was the clear winner. But Jacob, like a little child hanging on to his Father’s leg, refused to let go of the man. “I will not let you go unless you bless me” (26), protested Jacob. He’s hanging on helplessly to the one who has defeated him. Jacob is no longer trying to get the blessing but asking for the blessing, he’s no longer scheming for a blessing but begging for it from someone whom he recognized as the only source of blessing. Hosea says that Jacob not only grappled with the Angel, but he wept and pleaded for a blessing (Hosea 12:4).

The Trophy

Who won this wrestling match? Both won, but in different ways. The ‘man’ won by winning, by defeating Jacob, weakening him physically, and weakening him spiritually. He humbled his body and his heart. The ‘man’s’ victory is underlined by his asking Jacob for his name (27). He knew it already, but he’s asking Jacob to say his name as a confession, to identify with his identity as a supplanter, a cheat, a conman, a grifter who got his way by beating down others to get to the top. The ‘man’ gets a trophy of grace.

But, Jacob also won. He won by losing, and ended up with five trophies in his cabinet.

  • A new name. The Lord blesses Jacob with a change of character, and confirms it with a change of name. Your name shall no longer be called Jacob, but Israel, for you have striven with God and with men, and have prevailed (28). Israel means ‘Power with God’ he’s given this name because “you have fought with God and have won.” Clearly he did not win by winning. He won by losing. His new name would therefore remind him of his new way of getting power from God and winning with God: through weakness. He leaves force and fraud behind in the desert, together with his old name. He goes forward with helpless faith, hanging on to God in great weakness. The way to have power with God is to be broken by God. As Ed Clowney put it: “Faith wins when it knows that all is lost, and clings to God alone.”
  • A new blessing. He asks for the man’s name, but the man gives him a blessing instead. And there he blessed him (29). Where? In the place of weakness, defeat, injury, and tears.
  • A new landmark. So Jacob called the name of the place Peniel (‘face of God’), saying, “For I have seen God face to face, and yet my life has been delivered” (30). Like Hagar, he’s astonished that he’s seen God and he’s still alive. He had seen God’s face and lived and therefore he could see Esau’s face and live.
  • A new limp. He limped upon his thigh for the rest of his days (31-32) so that Jacob would never forget the strength of weakness. By wounding him, God healed him. Both the sinew and his self-confidence shriveled. Like Paul, Jacob is now going forward in God’s strength (2 Cor. 12:7).
  • A new memory. The Lord shows his care for Jacob by giving him and Israel a permanent reminder of the lessons of this wrestling match. Every time they set this sinew aside they would remember the path to blessing is through weakness.

Though remnants of the ‘old man’ would continue, Jacob was sanctified by this encounter with the Angel of the Lord, the pre-incarnate Christ. He learned strength through weakness, and, above all, learned that God was a covenant-keeping God who cared for him and would keep His promises without Jacob’s help. Thus, the chapter ends the wrestling bout with two winners.

CHANGING OUR STORIES WITH GOD’S STORY

Strength lies in confessed and felt weakness before God. As Hosea reminded Jacob’s descendants many years later (Hosea 12:4-6), this incident teaches us that the way to victory is not in wrestling God to the ground, but in having God wrestle us to the ground. In fact, better just start on the ground in confessed weakness. That’s the way to be Christ’s trophy and get trophies from Christ. We win by losing.

Christ came before Christmas to save Hagar and to sanctify Jacob. Charles Drew said: “He graciously adopted such methods to indicate how much he longed for the fullness of time when he should put away their sins and bring in an everlasting righteousness for them.” Or as John Calvin put it, “For even though he (Christ) was not yet clothed with flesh, he came down, so to speak, as an intermediary, in order to approach believers more intimately.” Christ came before Christmas. What an encouragement to us as we seek salvation and holiness from Jesus. He wants this for us even more than we want it for ourselves.

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SUMMARY

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PRAYER

Messenger of the Lord, thank you for coming to sanctify saints. Please sanctify me with your desire for my sanctification.

DISCUSSION QUESTIONS

1. How would you grade your desire for holiness?

2. What increases or decreases your desire for holiness?

3. When have you seen spiritual losses through winning? What did you lose?

4. When have you seen spiritual gains through losing? What were your gains?

5. How much does Jesus desire our holiness? What effect does that have upon you?

6. What does Christ coming before Christmas to sanctify Jacob tell you about Christ’s coming at Christmas?

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Q&A: My Advice to a Depressed Teen Girl

Do you have a story of depression? I recently got an email from a young woman who has a painful story of depression but who wants to change her story with God’s Story. Unfortunately I don’t usually have time to answer these emails but I thought I could answer this one in such a way that I could use it for a podcast too and help many more with similar stories.

I’ve changed names and details to protect privacy, but here’s her questions and my answers which I hope will change her story and maybe yours too.

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Reading: Matthew 20:28