Something that every Elder’s Meeting/Deacon’s Board/Presbytery should purchase: The Talk-o-meter.
When switched on the iPhone App, Talk-o-meter, will separate different voices and at intervals of 1, 2 or 5 minutes it presents in different lengths of red and blue bars what percentage of time each speaker was talking.
“Nobody has to be unpleasantly exhorted – from time to time everyone will have a cursory glance at the Talk-o-Meter and adapt if he is talking too much. Gentle biofeedback works!”
Might also save your marriage! (Or destroy it)