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8 Ways To Be A Mom Without Going Crazy | Anna Mussman, The Federalist
“Sane mommies are good for kids. How are we to avoid being driven crazy by all the angst, mommy wars, and parenting books out there? Here are eight things that we should remember in our quest to remain sane. ”

Don’t Turn Motherhood into an Idol | Prince on Preaching
“When motherhood becomes the center of a woman’s life and identity, rather than Christ, a blessing easily turns into a burden. A path of joy turns into a path of despair. The attempt to quantify why your life matters by your performance as a mother will produce frustration and inevitable discontentment. To put it another way, motherhood is a glorious mission but a horrible idol.”

A Plan for the Problem of Pornography | Phil Ryken, Reformation21 Blog
“Anyone who does these things by faith will experience the transforming work of the Holy Spirit. Anyone who is involved with pornography and decides not to do these things is pursuing his or her own destruction. ”

If Death Is Gain, Should We Pray for Healing? | Travis Myers, Desiring God
“Last year I was diagnosed with a type of blood cancer called B-cell follicular non-Hodgkin’s lymphoma…”

Me, the Lord, Pizza, and Celiac Disease | Kevin DeYoung, TGC
“Don’t waste your weakness–if it’s true for cancer, it’s certainly true for Celiac. I don’t know what lessons the Lord is going to teach me, but I’m sure there will be plenty.”

Worms and Fire | Barry York, Gentle Reformation
“Surely hell does not appear to be on the consciences of most people these days. If that’s indeed the case, there is one clear source to blame. Preachers.”

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J.C. Ryle: Prepared to Stand Alone by Iain H. Murray

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Not a Chance: God, Science, and the Revolt against Reason by R. C. Sproul and Keith Mathison ($1.99)


Onward: Engaging the Culture without Losing the Gospel by Russell Moore ($4.99)


The Spirit of Revival (with the complete, modernized text of The Distinguishing Marks of a Work of the Spirit of God) by Jonathan Edwards, R. C. Sproul, Archie Parrish ($2.99)


The Quick-Reference Guide to Biblical Counseling by Dr. Tim Clinton and Dr. Ron Hawkins ($4.99)

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Shepherd’s Conference 2016 Videos
Grace Community Church has graciously provided all the conference videos from the 2016 Shepherd’s conference on Vimeo. Click the link above to see the listing. Below you’ll see John Macarthur from the first general session of the conference.


Top 10 Books for Graduates

Given all the High School and College graduations in the next few weeks I thought it would help to list the Top 10 Books for Graduates. Basically, these are the books I think would be most helpful to young people starting out on life. It’s been really tough to narrow this down but I’ve tried to cover theology, money, marriage, vocation, technology, and apologetics. At the end of the post you’ll find an additional list of “honorable mentions” and also reader suggestions. Add any others in the comments.

Before we get to that, here are some links to more “Top 10 Books” lists:

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1. Taking God At His Word: Why the Bible Is Knowable, Necessary, and Enough, and What That Means for You and Me by Kevin DeYoung.

As the Bible is the foundation of everything, Kevin DeYoung has written a readable beginner’s guide to important questions such as “What is the Bible?” “How do I interpret it?” etc.

2. The Reason for God by Tim Keller.

Many young Christians lose faith at College because they have not been prepared to defend the faith. Keller’s book will equip students with the basics of what they need to know about the Christian worldview and how to respond to it’s opponents and competitors.

While Keller’s book deals with the bigger picture, the broad principles of apologetics, Josh Macdowell’s classic, More Than a Carpenter, will help students to answer more specific common questions about Christianity.

3. Thriving at College: Make Great Friends, Keep Your Faith, and Get Ready for the Real World! by Alex Chediak.

Alex Chediak guides prospective college students away from their ten most common mistakes. There’s also a companion volume for parents, Preparing Your Teens for College: Faith, Friends, Finances, and Much More

A similar book but narrower in its scope and more popular in style is How to Stay Christian in College.

And you might also want to consider Alex’s most recent book Beating the College Debt Trap: Getting a Degree Without Going Broke.

4. The Meaning of Marriage: Facing the Complexities of Commitment with the Wisdom of God by Tim Keller.

Simple yet profound look at marriage which I wish I’d read 22 years ago. Has the potential to revolutionize your view and experience of marriage.

I’d also highly recommend What He Must Be: …If He Wants to Marry My Daughter by Voddie Baucham. Keller’s book deals more with principles whereas Baucham’s book is more practical. Both are vital. Although entitled What HE must be, it’s a good one for female readers too, so that they know what kind of guy to look out for.

5. Every Good Endeavor: Connecting Your Work to God’s Work by Tim Keller.

An excellent foundation to a lifetime of work that makes me wish I was a teenager again. Another perfect companion volume would by God at Work (Redesign): Your Christian Vocation in All of Life by Gene Veith.

6. Do More Better: A Practical Guide to Productivity by Tim Challies. Perhaps the most practically helpful book on the list.

What’s Best Next: How the Gospel Transforms the Way You Get Things Done by Matt Perman. A bigger book than Do More Better, looking at productivity, time management, workflow, and vocation from the Christian perspective of good works for the glory of God. I can’t for the life of me understand why schools don’t teach this rather than physics, chemistry, etc.

Crazy Busy: A (Mercifully) Short Book about a (Really) Big Problem by Kevin DeYoung could also save graduates a lot of grief.

Some other excellent productivity/organization/time management books, though not from a Christian perspective are: Organizing from the Inside Out: The Foolproof System For Organizing Your Home, Your Office and Your Life by Julie Morgenstern. For much more on time management, try Morgenstern’s Time Management from the Inside Out

7. The Total Money Makeover: A Proven Plan for Financial Fitness by Dave Ramsey.

How I wish I’d met Dave Ramsey 30 years ago. So, so important for younger people to learn money management from the earliest age. If the graduate was in any way interested in business, I’d also recommend Ramsey’s Entreleadership: 20 Years of Practical Business Wisdom from the Trenches.

8. The Next Story: Life and Faith after the Digital Explosion by Tim Challies.

What teen doesn’t struggle with the role of technology in their life. Tim Challies’ book will give you guidance that will set you up for life. You’ll come back to it again and again.

9. 18 Words: The most important words you will ever know by J. I. Packer.

I’d want any package of ten books for a graduate to have a general theology book somewhere. Packer’s is the one I think best suited to students. If the student was more able, I’d recommend Everyone’s a Theologian by R.C. Sproul. For a popular introduction to biblical theology I can think of none better than Dan Phillips’s The World-Tilting Gospel.
Or have a look at Visual Theology: Seeing and Understanding the Truth About God for an attractive and unique presentation of theology ideally suited to our visual age.

10. Why We Love the Church: In Praise of Institutions and Organized Religion by Kevin DeYoung and Ted Kluck.

As I know young Christians are very tempted to church-hop, I’d want them to read this powerful argument for commitment to a local church. A fine alternative would be Thabiti’s What Is a Healthy Church Member?

I’m going to cheat here, break my Top 10 rule, and add three more books that I think every graduate should have.

11. Don’t Waste Your Life by John Piper.

A stirring call to Christian action and commitment, to serve God with all our heart in the few short years we have here below.

And there’s also In Christ Alone: Living the Gospel Centered Life by Sinclair Ferguson.

12. Discovering God’s Will by Sinclair Ferguson.

If Piper’s book will convince you to serve God with your whole life, the next question is, “What does God want me to do with my life?” Sinclair Ferguson will help you find the answer to that vital question.

See also Just Do Something: A Liberating Approach to Finding God’s Will by Kevin DeYoung.

13. Lit!: A Christian Guide to Reading Books by Tony Reinke.

This will not only motivate reading, but also make it far more enjoyable, worthwhile, and productive.

Honorable Mentions

If I had a Top 20, these are the additional books that would make the list.

The Discipline of Spiritual Discernment by Tim Challies.

What’s Your Worldview?: An Interactive Approach to Life’s Big Questions by James Anderson.

Always Ready: Directions for Defending the Faith by Greg Bahnsen.

The Questions Christians Hope No One Will Ask: (With Answers) by Mark Mittelberg.

How to Become a Straight-A Student: The Unconventional Strategies Real College Students Use to Score High While Studying Less by Cal Newport.

Written in Stone: The Ten Commandments and Today’s Moral Crisis by Phil Ryken.

Reader Suggestions

These are some of the suggestions from social media surveys and polls. I haven’t read all of these.

Creation Regained: Biblical Basics for a Reformational Worldview by Al Woulters.

Developing A Healthy Prayer Life by Joel and James Beeke.

The Holiness of God by R.C. Sproul.

Total Truth: Liberating Christianity from Its Cultural Captivity by Nancy Pearcey and Phillip Johnson.

Life on the Edge: The Next Generation’s Guide to a Meaningful Future by Dr. James Dobson.

Mere Christianity by C. S. Lewis.

Welcome to College: A Christ-Follower’s Guide for the Journey by Jonathan Morrow.

The Bookends of the Christian Life by Jerry Bridges.


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Keith Getty’s Work-Life Balance | Warren Cole Smith, The Aquila Report
Here’s an instructive insight into the Gettys attempts to preserve their marriage:

“Kristyn and I, we’ve actually never had a night apart. We’ve been married 11 1/2 years. Never had a night apart, but we can do that because we work together. … Rooms, cars, and elevators, you can’t be alone with a man or woman in the room. They have to reorganize all the cab schedules and all those kinds of things, drive schedules. It becomes a nightmare for the operational people, but it’s just a rule. The organizations who host us have to respect that.”

Say Hard Things | Marshall Segal, Desiring God
“When was the last time someone told you you were wrong? If you can’t remember, you may have reason to be concerned.”

When You Don’t Love Your Job | Bethany Jenkins, TGC
Hating your job? Read this:

“Right now, I don’t love my work, and I don’t know why. It could be that I need ‘a Sabbath Year’ rest from working for 17 straight years at intense jobs or from trying to balance two jobs and time- consuming side projects for the last seven years. Or it could be that I need to change the work I’m doing. To process these questions, I’m looking at my work through three different lenses-heart, community, and world.”

Defusing Preacher Landmines | Peter Mead, Biblical Preaching
“Being aware of the dangers is a very significant first step.  But what else can we do once we identify the dangers in our path?  Here are seven quick suggestions to help clear the way in our ministry…”

7 practical things that make my preaching ineffective | Adrian Reynolds, The Proclamation Trust
“I spent a little time reflecting on 7 practical things that make me ineffective as a preacher. I realise that this kind of post rather lays my own heart bare. Nevertheless, it’s worth posting because we need to be honest about what holds us back. ”

Unity in Multi-Categorical Diversity in the Church | Nick Batzig, Reformation21 Blog
“As I survey the landscape of the church in our day, I see four categories–in addition to ethnicity and spiritual giftedness–where there is a need for greater unity among the diversity of members in the church…”

The One Area of Diversity That Doesn’t Count | Michael J. Kruger, Canon Fodder
“In the modern liberal push for diversity there is one enormous category missing: intellectual/religious/ideological diversity.”

Duty of Parents to Children – John Bunyan | Prince on Preaching
“Below is some excellent Christian advice from Bunyan about parenting. I have added the headings and changed some paragraph divisions but the rest is Bunyan’s writing.”

Four Things Christian Leaders Can Learn from Ted Cruz’s Interpersonal Failures | Ed Stetzer, The Exchange
“Let’s learn from Cruz’s relational challenges and avoid our own. I promise you, this is a needed lesson in many Christian leadership contexts.”

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The Knight’s Map by R. C. Sproul

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Dug Down Deep: Unearthing What I Believe and Why It Matters by Joshua Harris ($1.99)


Taking God At His Word: Why the Bible Is Knowable, Necessary, and Enough, and What That Means for You and Me by Kevin DeYoung ($3.99)


The Hole in Our Holiness: Filling the Gap between Gospel Passion and the Pursuit of Godliness by Kevin DeYoung ($3.99)


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4 Things My Mom Taught Me About Theology | Derek Rishmawy
“The reality is that for all the Calvin or Bavinck I may quote, the deepest roots of my theological instincts can be traced to my mom’s instruction in the faith.”

I’m Still a Complementarian… And There’s Still That “But  | Thabiti
Thabiti discusses some of the challenges in promoting biblical roles and relationships in marriage

What Should We Do with Books by Fallen Leaders | Tim Challies
“With the sad removal from ministry of yet another prominent pastor, I’ve been wondering how we are to view their ministry retrospectively. What do we do with their books? With their sermons? With their tweets and blog posts?”

The secret of consistently reading | Blogging Theologically
“Believe it or not, there are ways that anyone can read more books-and it doesn’t have to take a lot of effort.”

3 Ways You Can Serve Teenagers in Your Church | TGC
“Over my 18 years in the church, I’ve seen three ways every church member can (and should) serve their teenagers: by getting to know us, by not underestimating us, and by teaching us.”

The Busy Man is a Lazy Man | Burk Parsons
“Borrowing from something C.S. Lewis wrote, it’s the lazy man who does not properly schedule his time, who cannot say no, who does not plan ahead properly, who is often late for appointments, who is always rushing around, not calling people back in an appropriate time frame, and so on.”

7 Reasons Why Emotional Intelligence Is One Of The Fastest-Growing Job Skills | Fast Company
“Here’s why hiring managers say they often value emotional intelligence more highly than IQ.”

Kindle Books

What is the Mission of the Church by Kevin DeYoung $2.99.

Crazy Busy by Kevin DeYoung $3.99.

Manhood Restored: How the Gospel Makes Men Whole by Eric Mason $0.99.

God in the Whirlwind: Stories of Grace from the Tornado at Union University $0.99.

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For the Glory: Eric Liddell’s Journey from Olympic Champion to Modern Martyr by Duncan Hamilton. A new book that focuses on Liddell’s equally heroic post-Olympics life.


One of the Greatest Days of Our Lives

I don’t tend to post much about my family on the blog but today I have to make an exception because yesterday we had the enormous privilege of attending my son’s graduation from Marine Corps boot camp in San Diego. To top it all off, Allan also became a US citizen during a deeply moving naturalization ceremony (first photo). The rest of us hope to follow suit by the end of the year – as citizens, not Marines! Here’s a video and a few photos to give you a flavor of one of the greatest days of our lives.

Allan’s in the middle with the glasses.

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And here’s the whole gang, left to right: Joni (14), Shona (?), Allan (20), me (49), Scott (2), Angus (18), and Amy (12).


Time to Clear Out the Pundits

One benefit of elections is that every few years there’s a clear out of politicians and their staffs. It doesn’t matter whether they are Republican or Democrat, the regular electoral purge keeps the process from rotting too much on both sides of the aisle. Even those who start out with the purest principles and motives can stay too long and end up being infected with the corrupting power of power.

But there’s one class of people in the political process who never seem to get cleared out; the pundits and opinionators. No matter how long they stay, how corrupt they grow, how out of touch they become, how wrong they are, the electoral brush never sweeps them out the stable. But, if anything’s clear from the past year, large tracts of the commentariat are past their smell-by date. Multitudes of them have utterly failed in their duty to the public and yet none of them will lose their jobs.

I’m not speaking of ordinary journalists and reporters here – although it’s increasingly hard to separate them from the pundits these days. I’m referring to the talking heads, the op-ed columnists, the “experts.” The majority of them have failed dismally in their basic duties to us for a long time, but especially in the past year A.D. (After Donald).

Job Description
Think about their basic responsibilities. They are paid to identify important events and trends in public opinion and interpret them. They are paid to invite, interact with, inform, and influence public opinion. How few have done this well in the past twelve months, or even the past ten years or so. Isolated from ordinary Americans and their everyday struggles, their world and their minds have shrunk to the tiny artificial world of their home offices and their regular commute to the TV studios in New York and Washington.

The only part of their job description they’ve worked at is “influence public opinion,” but even that has been ineffective because they are not doing the much harder work of getting out of their electronic bunkers and meeting public opinion in the flesh. As a result, they’ve failed to identify important events and trends, they’ve failed to interpret them, they’ve failed to interact with public opinion, and they’ve failed to accurately inform public opinion. That’s why their attempts to influence public opinion have so dismally failed.

They’ve laughed at Donald Trump. They’ve dismissed Donald Trump. They’ve lambasted Donald Trump. They’ve enjoyed 65,000 negative ads against Donald Trump. They’ve assured us of his demise and defeat. And now Donald Trump is the Republican nominee, having steamrolled over sixteen GOP candidates in four short months of primaries.

“How come no one listened to us?” they protest. Because you’re not living their lives and you’re not listening to their opinions.

Isolated and Insulated
I remember an amazing journalist I used to know quite well. He was an incredibly gifted writer who had won a number of awards early in his career. He used to be required reading. But he moved to an extremely isolated part of the country in order to get away from the distractions of city living and write more. However, although his words multiplied, his influence diminished. His writing lost touch with reality; it lacked authenticity; his commentary was like someone trying to understand the world through postcards. His columns were still interesting and even entertaining; but they were not influential. Cut off from the influence of public opinion, he had cut off his influence upon public opinion.

Though most of our punditocracy live in and around the bustling metropolises of Washington and New York, they are no less isolated and insulated from the ordinary daily lives of ordinary Americans. What they say and write is still interesting, and sometimes entertaining, but they’ve lost their power to influence because they’ve lost contact with reality. Their columns and opinions feel out of touch, artificial, unreal.

For years they’ve ignored mighty economic, social, moral, cultural, and spiritual events and trends impacting tens of millions of Americans. They’ve failed to interpret these events and trends. They’ve failed to identify massive shifts in public opinion. They’ve failed to invite and interact with public opinion. And they wonder why their golden words aren’t valued any more! If you don’t know what’s happening, how can you hope to tell us why it’s happening, or how to change it.

The Trump Train
I was watching CNN on Tuesday night when Donald Trump knocked out the last two men standing. The studio was subdued. The chattering class were still chattering but they were clearly flummoxed and discombobulated. The Donald Trump train had just rampaged through their universe leaving their prestigious opinions in a tangled mess. Alternating between holding their heads in their hands and wringing their hands, they wondered, “How did we not see this coming?”

You only need to spend regular time in McDonald’s (not Starbucks, pastors!) to understand why this train has so many passengers on it. Look at the people serving there – and eating there. Listen to the conversations. Look at their faces and their postures. Instead of insulting them, listen to their stories. Or drive an hour from most major cities and take a look and listen around.

Too Little, Too Late
Now a few professional pundits, like David Brooks at the New York Times, admit they need to get out more and actually talk to at least some of the Americans that don’t inhabit news rooms and TV studios most of their lives. But it’s too late. We need a clear out. We need new blood and new brains. In no other profession would so many people make so many serious mistakes and suffer no serious consequences.

Pundits and commentators serve a useful public purpose in the democratic process. We need them to help us make sense of our world and our lives. However, they cannot do that unless they are living in our world and living our lives. We need intelligent commentators. But we also need real-life people, people who are a fair representation of the population in age, class, color, religion, background, region, education, etc. Otherwise we just end up with the current complacent and dangerous groupspeak and Donald Trump one step from the presidency. Or worse.

Pundits, do the honorable thing. Resign and relocate as a public service, as your contribution to homeland security. Live among us for ten years and you may be qualified for your posts again. You need to be influenced by us, if you are ever going to influence us. You cannot move public opinion unless you are moved by public opinion.